Dadubwa Posted April 18, 2007 Posted April 18, 2007 My ex and I confessed we still loved each other about 2 months ago. We broke up almost 2 years ago, because I got drunk at a party and made out with a friend of mine. (Real mature I know). The thing is I've matured, and I think she knows that, she’s the most forgiving person I've ever met and has let me know time and time again she forgives me. I've never loved anyone the way I loved my ex. When we confessed we were still in love she told me that I was the “one”, unfortunately at the time I had a girlfriend, and she had a boyfriend. So about a month later I decided the best thing to do was to break it off with my current girlfriend. Well since I broke it off, my ex hasn’t made a move to break up with her boyfriend. A few weeks after we confessed she wrote on her blog “Why would we stay with someone when we know we’re not going to marry them, I want to marry you.”(obviously I’m the only one that could see the post). With all this passion she has towards getting back together with me, she sure isn't making any bold moves. I kind of want to bring it up to her. But just recently I received an e-mail from her saying that she wants to start getting to know each other again in an honest way; by hanging out and being friends. (She goes to college). Okay that all makes sense, but I feel awful with her knowing how I feel and I knowing how she feels and hanging out as friends when she has a boyfriend still and when we both know we feel so much more. Am I out of line if I bring it up? I feel as though I am. Help??
CaliGuy Posted April 19, 2007 Posted April 19, 2007 Tell her if she wants to be with you, if she really loves you and thinks you are the one for her, she needs to show it with actions and not just words. Her words say she wants to be with you. Her actions, on the other hand, says she has reservations.
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