Guest Posted April 18, 2007 Posted April 18, 2007 Hi all- I have been dating a girl exclusively for the past two months but we started to talk/casually date about a month or two before that. We talk every day be it on AIM, text messaging, or in person or on the phone. We usually hang out and sleep over at one of our houses a few nights a week and on the weekend. We also just got back from a trip together to new york for the weekend. The issue is that she is not willing to call me her boyfriend. She wants to use the label of dating. We kind of had a fight about it a few weeks ago when we were out at a bar with some friends. I called her my girlfriend in passing, and she got upset. We made up, but the dating label still holds. Now she has said things to me like "if you ever come to my hometown we will have to do this" or "if you ever meet my dad" and "that is the type of house I would like to live in, if you are lucky you can live there too." So whats going on here? Is she stuck on the boyfriend label for some reason? If so why? What should I do about this? All of the girls in my past have been in a hurry to be my girlfriend and I have to push back. This situation seems to be different so I am a little lost. I am not really in a hurry or care about the label, but it just seems weird to me. We are girl/boyfriends in all but the label. Should I bring up the issue with her? Or let her bring it up? I kind of feel like the one to always bring up the issue lately when in the begining she was the one asking about what we were doing and what are label was. Please help! and Thanks!
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