He's in Maine....and I'm in Florida

[str_Ay]

I never noticed this guy before

I mean

He had added me a few months back onto his list

We're both interested in the Pitbull society

He's a breeder and kennel owner

But that's besides the point

Single, 26, father, cute....yet

We've never met

We've talked on the phone twice

(BTW I'm 20 [21 in May])

Both times made my heart beat more times than I can even imagine

How is it possible to be so attracted to someone

That isn't even in front of you?

We've jokingly spoken about me going out to see him

Or even him coming out here...

But

Would things change?

Would I still be attracted to him?

Will he still be attracted to me?

I dunno

It just doesn't make sense to really like someone who's so far.

What do you think?

If we continue talking

Should we meet?

Or just see it as something that's not a huge deal

I am picky

And the fact that he's really caught my attention

AND being in Maine

Is something different for me

If he wanted to start something up

Should I say yes

Or just pass it on?

Please comment

Thank you

[whichwayisup]

If you meet, make sure it's in a public place and someone you know well KNOWS where you are, just incase.

 

People can click online, and even on the phone, but until you meet him face to face, you won't know.

 

Just keep in mind he is a single father (so he tells you...The thing about online romances, you really don't know if he is telling you the truth. He could be married and playing it off like he's separated or divorced) and he has a child.

[jkitz2006]

well i have been in the same position before. i am from maine as well. i am not living in virgina, but i met my current boyfriend online as well, we clicked and have alot of the same things in common we talked for a long time. and he made me feel like no one ever before but i had doubts just like you cause he could be diffrent in person. but i took those risks. and we starting dating when i was still in maine. ( he was in virginia, but orginally from kentucky) so we starting dating in september. and i came down in november. and we are still together completely in love. he still makes me feel wonderful. and we are getting engaged in a few months. so yes be very very careful. but it might not be as bad as it seeems.

[str_Ay]

Wow

Two totally diff perspectives

I'm sure as hell crossing my fingers that he's not JUST seperated

Or just going through a bad marriage

But

I've never liked someone from a distance before

So it's weird anyways

If I can't physically touch them

Then what's the point?

But at the same time

You're left to wonder

I still have time to decide

But

As always for me

Curiosity

Gets the best of me

:/

[Guest]

Hold the phone, sister! When you said he added you to his list, what list are you referring to? Myspace? BE CAREFUL!!! If it is, really look and pay attention to his page, and see what is being said to him and what he is saying to everyone else! My advice, PROCEED WITH CAUTION!!!