ladyin waitin04 Posted December 30, 2002 Posted December 30, 2002 [font=times new roman][/font][color=blue][/color] hey, there's this guy that i know and like (alot),but we already went out before and we're not dating right now ,but i'm trying to be friends again and hopefuly get us back in a close relationship eventually ,but when we talk on the phone my brain goes dead and i'm so lost on what to talk about,and then he ends up getting bored and letting me go .i feel like i'll have no chance even as a friend w/ him if i can't get topics to talk about to keep him interested.and sports is out of the questioned b/c he and i both hate them pretty much.lol...soo, please just help me get some topics together for the next time he and i chat to keep him wanting to hear more and more from me and not wanting to let me go off the phone.thanx!
scotch Posted December 30, 2002 Posted December 30, 2002 well- honestly - i think that if it doesnt come somewhat naturally- then it isnt meant to be. dont you want to feel comfortable? I mean. there is a healthy amoubnt of nervousness that should be felt but in the past (when I have dated people) what brings us together is our mental "connection"..just think that he needs to be impressing you too...you are a catch.....
Stinger Posted March 2, 2003 Posted March 2, 2003 Hm, do I know you? You seem a lot like someone I know. I am pretty much the guy you described. When I talk to her later on in the evening, she goes brain dead. Even in the afternoon, she's still kinda zoned out, and we rarely get a good conversation going. It's not all her fault though. We just don't relate on much. She's a vegetarian, I'm eat turkey sandwiches almost every day... she's anti-war, I'm fascinated by war...she hates pro-wrestling, I watched it all the time as a kid. It's the small things that matter, and we just don't relate on many of them. If the conversations don't roll naturally, then you two probably just don't have good chemistry.
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