SouthernT Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 To the guys...(and ladies feel free to jump in here...) MEN: Is it TOO much for you to straight out say to a girl "My only intentions with you are sexual" From what I understand, men know AUTOMATICALLY when they meet a new girl, they know from jump whether she is relationship potential or just a quick lay. So why bother to continue to waste time with her knowing in your mind, the only thing you want is sex from this lady and give her the option up front to stay or go? And I'm not saying that all you want is sex from ALL women. But my question pertains to the women that you only want sex from. (not the ones you have romantic interest in) So, whats up guys?
DanielMadr Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Because when we would say "All we want is sex from you" We would be telling you "We dont find you attractive enough to date you" meaning you are not pretty enough or your personality repels us to a point we are certain we wont change our opinion. And it would be rude. Its not that different from girls behaviour. So please dont start the "which sex is the saint one";)
New Hope Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 I agree with the guys!!! u should know better than anybody men and women like to play mind war games...
a4a Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Because when we would say "All we want is sex from you" We would be telling you "We dont find you attractive enough to date you" meaning you are not pretty enough or your personality repels us to a point we are certain we wont change our opinion. And it would be rude. Its not that different from girls behaviour. So please dont start the "which sex is the saint one";) goodness that means guys will have sex with ugly girls? :lmao: I would never have sex with an ugly guy. But a good looking guy I would ask "would you like to just have sex"......... is that rude? Hell I have done that in so many words....... not interested in a date/relationship with them, just some fun.
Topper Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 goodness that means guys will have sex with ugly girls? :lmao: I would never have sex with an ugly guy. But a good looking guy I would ask "would you like to just have sex"......... is that rude? Hell I have done that in so many words....... not interested in a date/relationship with them, just some fun. a4a, Now that is the difference between men and woman. A woman could say ask a guy for sex only and out of 100 times she might get turned down once. If a guy did that he might get one yes out of asking a woman for sex thousand times. The rest of the time he would be getting at best " Your disgusting" or a slap on the face. If she was really offended a swift kick to the family jewels. Despite what woman think men can learn things. After the 3rd or 4th slap the light goes on! It's time to lie! Even if woman just wants the sex they still want to hear the lie. We human do seem to have some odd mating rituals.
DanielMadr Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 goodness that means guys will have sex with ugly girls? :lmao: It depends on personal taste, alcohol consumed aka beer goggles.....and you can use paper bag or switch the light off as last resort. I would never have sex with an ugly guy. But a good looking guy I would ask "would you like to just have sex"......... is that rude? Yes its rude but we dont care....the fun part compensates it. Hell I have done that in so many words....... not interested in a date/relationship with them, just some fun. Shame. Its a fate. When you want date them they offer sex only and when you want sex only they want to date you.
DanielMadr Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 a4a, Now that is the difference between men and woman. A woman could say ask a guy for sex only and out of 100 times she might get turned down once. If a guy did that he might get one yes out of asking a woman for sex thousand times. The rest of the time he would be getting at best " Your disgusting" or a slap on the face. If she was really offended a swift kick to the family jewels. Despite what woman think men can learn things. After the 3rd or 4th slap the light goes on! It's time to lie! Even if woman just wants the sex they still want to hear the lie. We human do seem to have some odd mating rituals. You would be surprised how its better done when you just shut up about it. Friend of mine was looking for that honest one....always asking straight out "Wanna f@ck?". One girl, one day said yes. They are married now with second child on a way.
IpAncA Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 To the guys...(and ladies feel free to jump in here...) MEN: Is it TOO much for you to straight out say to a girl "My only intentions with you are sexual" From what I understand, men know AUTOMATICALLY when they meet a new girl, they know from jump whether she is relationship potential or just a quick lay. So why bother to continue to waste time with her knowing in your mind, the only thing you want is sex from this lady and give her the option up front to stay or go? And I'm not saying that all you want is sex from ALL women. But my question pertains to the women that you only want sex from. (not the ones you have romantic interest in) So, whats up guys? Because every once in a while one of them strays off the sexual lane and moves into the dating lane. Yes it seems so much easier if some of them would be honest and say what's REALLY on their mind. Like someone said it's rude. But then again I think it's rude to only want sex from someone and led them on to think they want something more when they don't. I do know what your saying though.
2ndIINone Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 MEN:All you want is SEX and cheaper gas prices.
VirtualInsanity Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 To the guys...(and ladies feel free to jump in here...) MEN: Is it TOO much for you to straight out say to a girl "My only intentions with you are sexual" From what I understand, men know AUTOMATICALLY when they meet a new girl, they know from jump whether she is relationship potential or just a quick lay. So why bother to continue to waste time with her knowing in your mind, the only thing you want is sex from this lady and give her the option up front to stay or go? And I'm not saying that all you want is sex from ALL women. But my question pertains to the women that you only want sex from. (not the ones you have romantic interest in) So, whats up guys? Not ALL men.
EricOnTheWeb Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Hmmm I dunno,I never had sex before,and if I find a woman that actually wants to have sex with me...well....I aint lettin her go!
nicki Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 I think it's great when guys are honest upfront. It would be dating suicide to say "I only want sex from you. Nothing more." So, it's much better to hear "I am not wanting a relationship right now. Just to have a little fun with someone who wants the same thing, and doesn't expect anything more." Reading between the lines, "Sex only, please." It works for George Clooney, right? But, I'd still turn him down.
LaughMachine Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Well ladies, you'll only have this problem with stupid wasteless boys. If a guy doesn't find you attractive enough to date you, than why on earth would he have sex with you? You must have a little something something. Anyway, only stupid boys will know the answer to this. I only hope Alot of men respond with jokes rather than a serious answer? LAMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Trialbyfire Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 But then again I think it's rude to only want sex from someone and lead them on to think they want something more when they don't. Exactly. That's called lying by omission or for some guys, flat out lying, to get what they want. And men wonder why women test them...
LoveLace Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 I thought I wanted waffles. I'll whip those up for ya tomorrow morning Tan. I've had guys come straight out and say all they want is to sleep with me. It was great because at the moment that was all I wanted too. And in subtle ways I've been the one to tell a guy the same thing. But most of the time, guys might refrain from telling this truth because they assume that most women want a relationship and want to be loved, etc, so to blantently admit that they only want to use you for a piece of a** only makes them look like "pigs" and will get them nowhere (I am stating from their point of view there). They try to be more smooth about it than that. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, because sometimes women can see right through them.
tanbark813 Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 I'll whip those up for ya tomorrow morning Tan. Thanks, babe.
DanielMadr Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Exactly. That's called lying by omission or for some guys, flat out lying, to get what they want. And men wonder why women test them... So you test men to find neutered ones? Serious advice: Lets not use this "All they want is sex" b/c all a guy is hearing is "Guys dont find me attractive enough to stick around, so I became men-hater". Red Flag which can be proven wrong or right but its still a bump on the road, sister.
Trialbyfire Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 So you test men to find neutered ones? Serious advice: Lets not use this "All they want is sex" b/c all a guy is hearing is "Guys dont find me attractive enough to stick around, so I became men-hater". Red Flag which can be proven wrong or right but its still a bump on the road, sister. Nope. The testing is to confirm integrity. It doesn't always work but it helps to sift out the majority of the players.
DanielMadr Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Nope. The testing is to confirm integrity. It doesn't always work but it helps to sift out the majority of the players. Define Player please.
VirtualInsanity Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Lets not use this "All they want is sex" b/c all a guy is hearing is "Guys dont find me attractive enough to stick around, so I became men-hater". Red Flag which can be proven wrong or right but its still a bump on the road, sister. I for 1 would think that.
Trialbyfire Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Define Player please. A guy who strings along multiple chicks who don't have knowledge of each other, for the purposes of inflating his ego and possibly getting laid. He has no interest in these girls beyond that.
IpAncA Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Exactly. That's called lying by omission or for some guys, flat out lying, to get what they want. And men wonder why women test them... They test them if it happends to them a lot. I would too. BTW LL, I want those shoes or ones like them.
Lights Posted April 17, 2007 Posted April 17, 2007 a4a, Now that is the difference between men and woman. A woman could say ask a guy for sex only and out of 100 times she might get turned down once. If a guy did that he might get one yes out of asking a woman for sex thousand times. The rest of the time he would be getting at best " Your disgusting" or a slap on the face. If she was really offended a swift kick to the family jewels. Despite what woman think men can learn things. After the 3rd or 4th slap the light goes on! It's time to lie! What Topper said. If you want more men to straightforwardly ask in such a fashion, start a social trend that evens out both those numbers Topper mentioned and the punishments offered to those who ask and fail.
Salicious Crumb Posted April 17, 2007 Posted April 17, 2007 To the guys...(and ladies feel free to jump in here...) MEN: Is it TOO much for you to straight out say to a girl "My only intentions with you are sexual" From what I understand, men know AUTOMATICALLY when they meet a new girl, they know from jump whether she is relationship potential or just a quick lay. So, whats up guys? I take it you are not seen by men as having relationship potential?
Recommended Posts