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I met a guy a couple of weeks ago(he was here in a business trip.... We have been emailing each other daily.. but he lives in another country. Anyway-- I am really interested in him and he is coming in a couple of weeks for a wedding( the wedding is saturday night). What if he invites me to the wedding (its a small wedding at their house)

He will be here thursday night through sunday night. How available should I be.. I mean I really want to get to know him but I feel like I should play a little hard to get and be somewhat busy.. but he will only be coming to visit at most every 6 weeks... so it would be silly to only hang out one night.. right? HELP

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I met a guy a couple of weeks ago(he was here in a business trip.... We have been emailing each other daily.. but he lives in another country. Anyway-- I am really interested in him and he is coming in a couple of weeks for a wedding( the wedding is saturday night). What if he invites me to the wedding (its a small wedding at their house)

He will be here thursday night through sunday night. How available should I be.. I mean I really want to get to know him but I feel like I should play a little hard to get and be somewhat busy.. but he will only be coming to visit at most every 6 weeks... so it would be silly to only hang out one night.. right? HELP

 

It depends on what you want. If you want to play it safe or maintain your higher status, sure make yourself unavailable. If you are willing to put yourself out there and make a good impression on him, you should be available.

 

Your Mantra...isnt it a blasphemy? Im not sure if calling yourself God od Goddes isnt a litlle weird.:confused:

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Seriously, just call him and ask if he wants to meet up whilst he is there. You need time to get to know each other, and this is the perfect opportunity. Be available, be up-front and he will know you are interested. Don't assume he will want you to come to the wedding, and if he doesn't ask don't count it as a sign if he doesn't. He may just want to spend some time with his family or friends.

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