applejacks Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Hello, First time poster, anyway, last Friday I was able to successfully ask a girl out on a date, that is she said "sure," she would like to go to the movies/mall etc. with me and gave me her phone number. She seemed relatively interested, and willing to go out with me sometime over the weekend. However, after calling her later that day and leaving a message, she did not reply. I called the next day (Saturday), and she said she did not get my message until "late last night," and that unfortunately plans came up and she was too busy with other arrangements this weekend to go out. Now she may very well be telling me exactly what was going on, but I don't quite believe she is that busy a person or had that many things to do on Saturday or Sunday that she didn't have time to go to a movie. At fist I thought maybe she changed her mind or wasn't that interested, but I wondered why she seemed interested before and gave me her number? I thought perhaps maybe it had something to do with her parents, for whatever reason (we are still in high school). If so, what should I do? Should I continue being friendly but not ask her out, or should I try to find out what's going on? I don't want to seem intrusive or pressure her against the will of her parents. Thanks. Any advice would be appreciated.
JCD Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 My impression is that she's not that into you. If a girl likes you she will make herself available to go out with you because she wants to. I've had girls giving me their phone number only to find an excuse later on and it's aggravating so I just moved on to a girl that was into me and life is better.
Nezero Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 Ask her again do to something. If she has some excuse and doesn't suggest an alternative she's probably not interested. For example just before the break from uni for me I got this girls number just before getting on the train. Anyway I tried calling her a few days later, no answer went to voicemail. Try again next day same thing. Try again day after and left a message this time. Then I txt her. Never got on to her in the end. Now uni starteed back today and I saw her. Asked her did she get my message and she is like 'Oh i didn't have any credit and my phone was on silent. Hmm at this point things look bad, gonna try one more time and then I'll now for sure. So I guess the point in the story is she may of just said it cause she didn't want to hurt your feelings.
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