sweetscarlet Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 Should you date someone if you don't feel sparks when you first meet? Say the conversation went well and you think they're ok looking but it's not like you said "wow!" And if so, how long do you date them? Do you date them until they try something physical and you do or don't feel it's reciprocal? Or do you tell them friends for now?
johan Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 I think you date them until you know what the right answer is. But don't worry about it too much. You don't HAVE to get serious with everyone you date.
Author sweetscarlet Posted April 15, 2007 Author Posted April 15, 2007 Right.....but they're going to want to get touchy, so there's where the problem lies.
Author sweetscarlet Posted April 15, 2007 Author Posted April 15, 2007 Time to be upfront then. Don't lead them on. But see this is the problem with getting physical too soon. Greater attraction might happen as time goes on but the way things move today, it has to happen instantly or not at all.
alextop30 Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 my answer - give him a chanse if you think you like him. I am nice guy that dont stop talking and constantly talks for hours with girls - have friends I have feelings for and I have never been give a chanse by them and it is really sad not getting to know anyone and just blowing them off. Those friends are girls that some guys woruld consider girls of their dreams. So I still wish one of them would give me a chanse but no is no and I keep looking.
Enema Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 If they try to get "touchy" and you're not ready yet, you say: "I'm not ready to go there yet" If he runs away, is he the type of guy you want to see anyway?
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