Andy L Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 When we think about cheating we can consider many and complex reasons to this action. As well there's several different profiles of people doing that. But just to simplify and to make some points easer we can get two types simply here: 1) People who miss something in the relationship AND are UNHAPPY. 2) People who EVEN THOUGH miss something, they still are very HAPPY. In the first case it's easy to check that the betrayal will come some day and maybe without no guilt. But the second case get my attention just to consider how deep is the guilty feelings after the betrayal. Dietcoke was one good example here in this case. We can see how wrong she was in her choice as she said by herself and all her suffering for that big "mistake". So I think it's a good point to have in mind: Do you need do it, if you have a very strong and good marriage? I really don't think so...
norajane Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 Do you need do it, There is no such thing as need to do cheat and betray. It is always a choice, or a want, but never a need. There are other options to cheating, such as working on the unhappiness (if there is unhappiness, which many times there really isn't), or leaving the marriage...it's not like cheating is the only choice.
Sup Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 Your last thread about dietcoke was deleted, I don't know why. Anyway, Although she may come back here, she hasn't posted since the last time, she stated something about moving or something, if I recall. Andy, don't expect her to post on here again. Just my 2 cents.......
Author Andy L Posted April 16, 2007 Author Posted April 16, 2007 Your last thread about dietcoke was deleted, I don't know why. Anyway, Although she may come back here, she hasn't posted since the last time, she stated something about moving or something, if I recall. Andy, don't expect her to post on here again. Just my 2 cents....... ok Sup. thanks for your attention the only thing i don't know is how you're so well informed.. http://br.answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AhZWOlZFTqG0YO2Z1vgMmcHRExV.?show=c1TImBScaa
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