Magnatolia Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 Hey All, Ladies, if you're walking past a guy what is the best thing he can do to get your attention? I'm shy and I tend to just get an emotionless, smileless face which would be a bit creepy to a woman. I find it really hard to smile at the women when eye contact is made. So what should I do?
norajane Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 Smile. That's the only thing you can do. Just make yourself do it. It's not like anything bad will happen if you do. What are you afraid of?
alphamale Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 Smile. That's the only thing you can do. ha hah NJ...I thought you would say flashing a large wad of ca$h no....actualy MAGNOLIA, women don't want a man to try and get their attention...they just want men to walk up to them and start talking and show some confidence.
kepners Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 flash cash! HAHA superb! are you saying women are shallow? HAAH i can smile and wink and smile again. FOr me, i wont do anything till i catch her a few times. but i have a situation where a receptionist at my pool is smiling at me alot etc, we talk etc, but i dont know if crosseing the whole /are you single/ number/go out/ etc thing infront of everyone is a good thing. i dont know it hard sometimes. but to defend myself, shes really attractive etc, but i am not really interested because of an ex hahaha oh and i have this polish bird who goes swimming with her boyfriend giving me the eye... and she had an amazing body! like size 8 and doubleD's and tanned skin... but speaks polish.... and has a boyfriend! HAHAHA
alphamale Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 hahaha....now that would get my attention, a polish girl with tanned skin
kepners Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 shes does that to me! and shes got a sister sometimes... hahaha
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 I was going to say "smile with your eyes" but you said you find that hard to do. Women also get creeped out if a guy stares and never says hi or anything. Maybe you can time it right, and open a door for her, and if the opportunity presents itself, such as her saying "thank you" you could smile and say You're Welcome. Other than that, maybe practice your eye contact and smiles in the mirror, at a checkout, with other drivers on the road (even if they're not looking at you)...just practice and it will get more comfortable as time goes by.
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