FriendofMM Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 I've established a deep friendship with a MM going on for 3 years and don't think anything is wrong with it. My MM's loneliness is palpable and I'm grateful to provide him with true friendship and true friendship is what he gives to me as well. I think alot of married people need to understand that just because your spouse forms a deep friendship with a member of the opposite sex does not mean the OM/OW wants to take their spouse from them. In reality, no one can take your spouse unless your spouse wants to be got..but I know its easier for alot of married people to blame the OW/OM instead of looking deeply within and seeing what they need to do to make their marriage work. There were traits about my MM which his wife saw that made her want to commit to him...(he is a considerate person, giving to a fault, etc.)but does this mean NO other woman is suppose to notice those same traits, qualities simply because he is married? My MM is one of the best friends I have ever had and probably ever will have. He may remain married in the future, he may not, I may marry in the future, or I may not...but our friendship is real and will always be there...it is not something to be ashamed of or hidden because other people can't understand it...I am blessed to have found such a friend.
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