glenn84 Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 i dont know how to word this so i'll just say it how it is in my head. my wife and i have been married for a year but together for over 3 yrs we rushed alot we have 3 kids (2 a my stepchildren) well to cut it short i have lied and cheated and simplely put my wife through hell. i have realised what i have done wrong and i truly am sorry and soooo lucky she didnt leave me i dont deserve her i know that:love: , but its her birthday in 3 weeks and i want to do something wonderful something spectactular i have never not even once remembered her birthday i even went and got a tattoo the day before her birthday and then told her i had no money to get her anything:o so as u can see i owe her so much and really need to make it up to her so if anyone has any ideas on what i could do (money is abit short at the moment as i have gone back to studying.) if it helps i live in melbourne australia.
Island Girl Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 Is there something she is interested in doing that she has never done before? Skydiving, art classes, anything like that? Or you could get her a day of beauty -- at a spa - with massages, manicure, pedicure, etc. Make her feel like a Queen for a day -- to let her know she is your Queen everyday. If you go with the day of beauty - I'd also be kicking in with help for her for a month if not a year -- you put her through the ringer and she deserves a lot of extras for sticking with you through all of that.
LoveLace Posted April 15, 2007 Posted April 15, 2007 Island girl's idea is good. A pampering day at the spa is any woman's friend! Usually, they have special packages to purchase for that sord of thing, it might include a massage and facial, etc. Maybe start the day with breakfast in bed. Are there any household things that she tends to a lot more than you? Maybe start doing a couple of those things more often. Also, if you could arrange for the children to spend the night somewhere else for a night, it would be romantic to greet her one evening with a candle light dinner and romantic music...ultimately take every opportunity to tell her how wonderful you think she is.
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