jmh6975 Posted April 14, 2007 Posted April 14, 2007 i met this girl a year and a half ago..from the first day we met..we were both completely amazed about each other. we both new that we were perfect for each other since that day..and knew that we will have a life together forever. we were together for almost a year..we did everything together..even went on vactions to las vegas and florida. my family and friends thinks nothing but the world of her and her family have done the same..one night right before our 1 year we went to a party..and things turned out terribly wrong..we got in alittle fight. she called her parents to come pick us up because we obviously couldnt drive..her parents yelled at me and were just so mad at me. they brought me home and that was the end of our relationship..that meant soo much to us. after that happened i was very down with myself..cried all the time and i couldnt even got intouch with her because her parents refused. 2 months later we found a way to get in touch with one another..her parents found out and got really mad and told her that she can never talk to me again. so i waited for another 2 months and we were happy to talk to each other once again and were still so in love..cried and just wanted each other back so bad..once again her parents refused for us to be together..about a month later..this girl tried to come into my life and ruin my feelings for my ex..she tried but it never worked..i stoped talking to her and didnt wanna tell my ex that i talked to this girl for about a week..so i lied and told her we didnt do anything. she found out and she couldnt stop crying and was so heart broken..now 2 months later..we have found a way to get in touch with each other everyday and its killing the both of us to get back together..everyday we talk to each other it feels like we are still together...because our break up should have never happened in the first place..it was a complete disaster to the both of us of what happened..now we are just waiting for her parents to accept me back. what should we do???????????? or i do??
kepners Posted April 14, 2007 Posted April 14, 2007 now from all the advise i have EVER been given on this subject of family hating you. i even have a situation similar, but not its really close to urs.... i have been told over and over again its her deal to sort out! not urs. its HER family not URS. was asked what would happen if the situation was reversed what would i do if my family hated the women i loved... my reply was i would **** them off and do what i wanted and i would want them to be happpy for me, but in the end they had to respect my choices! now, in ur situation, if the roles where reversed... what would you do>? HAHAHA u know the answer already! u know you would sort ur family out enough for you both to be together! and i am betting your ahead of me now! you have to ask yourself why hasnt she done it! why hasnt she sorted them out... makes you think doesnt it. because i am sure you would sort it out very quickly and not let it drag on and on and on! its hurting both of you. so what do you think?
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