JhnZ71 Posted April 14, 2007 Posted April 14, 2007 There is a girl in a couple of my classes, I frequently catch her looking at me and a couple time she has smiled at me. We usually study together for tests, this usually entails about an hour or two of studying and then anywhere between 2-4 hours of hanging out (usually just talking), sometimes until 3 or 4 am. She asked me what kind of girls I like and I pretty much gave her an exact description of her, and she sort of did the same for me. I asked her if she wanted to do something tonite and she orig said yes, but then said she was goin out w/ some friends and would "let me know" what was going on. In the end she never called me. Is this saying something? Any help would be appreciated
Author JhnZ71 Posted April 14, 2007 Author Posted April 14, 2007 for all I know she might not have even gone out, I was with her until 3:30am last night. She seemed pretty tired today, I still get the feeling that she might have blown me off.
ShoeGirl Posted April 14, 2007 Posted April 14, 2007 I doubt she is blowing you off, if she went out with her friends she might have lost track of time and figured it was too late to call you. If I were you don't try and call this weekend and if you don't hear from her before you see her in class on Monday then ask her how her weekend went. Next time try and make set plans with her, going to dinner or something.
kepners Posted April 14, 2007 Posted April 14, 2007 well its one of two things, firstly she didnt really mean to blow you and ur over reacting and she wants to TEST YOU! or secondly shes proper playing you and some other boys and shes only flirting with you so she dont give herself away to quickly to the other chap, who she will have gone out with to see with her mates and will have stayed with him. and he will have banged her hard... NOW! which do YOU think it is!!! I know which one i think it is. the fact u catch her looking says it all. just next time u get a lets do soemthign, you ****ING TAKE IT!!! with BOTH HANDS!!! and the have a great time, have a glass of wine then kiss the damned girl!!!!!!!! HAHHA shes only testing you to see if ur a man and to see if ur strong enough not to be put off by her flakiness and rudeness etc etc and that no matter what she does u will always do ur own thing regards of her. its a test. from the sounds of it, i think u may have failed it... dont text her at all and do you own thing, so that when you do speak! u have done stuff etc and ur not all NEEDY! be strong be a man and she will LOVE IT and MELT FOR YOU!
Author JhnZ71 Posted April 14, 2007 Author Posted April 14, 2007 Ok, that sounds like what I will do. I really dont want to F*ck this up! I think were supposed to do something on Tuesday or something. How do I go about making a first move? What should I do? Any tips/ideas?
Green Posted April 14, 2007 Posted April 14, 2007 heres a first move for you next time its 2:30 am in the morning and its just you 2 heck the next time its just you 2 go in for a kiss just out of no where. then be like wow I think I need another and start making out with her. And then if shes like what now, just be like I dont know and play it like it never happened it will drive her crazy. And oh yeah keep going with the heat of the moment if its happening try to round as many bases as you can. God time travleing back into these good memories is all you'll have one day go for it boy
kepners Posted April 14, 2007 Posted April 14, 2007 mate, you dress ur best, you buy some new threads and shoes and shirt etc you shave you wear ur best aftershave, workout before you meet her so ur a lil pumped up. you go to town and show her ur making an effort to impress her. you dont check out other birds, you compliment her, you make her feel like shes the freaking world to you , you make her know shes a million dollar woman your out with. you make her feel your special your strong your incharge your going to protect her and lead the way until shes kinda says NO, unless its something ur strong about. you must know ur own mind! never let her change ur mind. you say about doing something unless she has a better idea ie u have made ur mind up but ur giving her the option to come up with something better if she can. you touch her, you move close to her, you make sure shes looking at your mouth alot when ur close, then you can either whisper in her ear something about kissing her you think of something cool and strong but also femine its hard but you will think of somethign i aint doing everythgin for you. then you kiss her when she everything is going well. trust. you take the oportunity! otherwise you will loose! be a man. be confident. but above all dont disrespect her! K
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