Stives Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 I have a rule not to date any of my brother's friends, or cousin's friends but have recently gone back on my rule. My cousin's friend started chasing me a little while ago but I really wasn't interested just because of the complications it might bring. Anyways, he's a dj and seems (ed) really nice, called me for a month begging for a date, buought me flowers and text messaging me like crazy, this went on for about 2 months and then I decided to have dinner with him, so we went out a few times and I started to go see him and my cousin dj at this club. We got closer and I found that i liked him after all. After spending the night together we continued seeing one another and just last week we got into a little fight but i still ended up going to the club to hear him play. Saw him djing when this girl came up to him and started to dance so he danced (grinded) with her for less than a minute but I still thought it was disrespectful. I haven't called or heard from him since last week... I find myself wanting to call him but I can't. Some of you may think it's not a big deal but if you like someone then I don't see where the motivation to make them look stupid comes from especially when everyone around knows you guys are dating. I feel he made me look stupid. Maybe he was just here for one thing. I find myself missing him and still wanting to be with him but how can I possibly and still have respect for myself. If it happens once and while I'm there, what goes on when I'm not there. Please let me know what you think.. espeially since he hasn't called makes me think he could care less and maybe that's the case.
SouthernT Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 If he is a DJ then of course he is going to get alot of attention from SEVERAL girls. This automatically comes with his job. And I'm sure that any girl that he's dated would have to understand that. Now whether or not YOU can deal with it...is completley up to you.....its just dancing. It would be different if the two of you went to a club together and he wasnt DJ-ing and THEN started to bumb and grind on a girl. Then you could consider it disrespectful if the two of you have that type of understanding.
chaos40 Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 your situation is commonly referred to as a booty call in da hood
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