Andy L Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 As we can see by many experiences, some women can cheat on their husbands if those hubbies aren't good with them, BUT can do it EVEN THOUGH they are good, loving, nice and whatever too... So I could ask now to all WOMEN here: What do you think about the reasons of those cheating wives doing it with bad and even though good husbands?
HopeForMe Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 Women cheat for many different reasons. 1. Boredom- Same as men women can get bored with the everyday humdrum of marriage. Ie becoming complacent. 2. Thrill- Women can cheat just out of sheer thrill. They see it as somewhat a romance novel fantasy. 3. Lack of Emotional- Women also cheat because their husbands become complacent with them. Let's face it after being married x amount of years, whatever that may be, men become complacent as do women. But more so women are more emotionally needy than men are. We like to hear that we're beautiful and we like to be held which in turn might or might not lead to sex, still we like to be held and not touched in a sexual manner. 4. For Revenge- Maybe he had a affair and she feels entitled to have one too. 5. Easy Way Out- Some women will cheat to have a easy way out. I call it the cowards way out. It's a way to let their spouse know that they aren't in love with them anymore, albeit a nasty and mean way, but a way none the less. There's a few that answer your question. People are complex and no one set of rules applies to all. But those seem to be some pretty plausible reasons. Hope it helps.
JustBreathe Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 All people who cheat, do so for the same warped reasons. It doesn't matter what gender. It also doesn't matter what the spouse does or doesn't do, or what they look like, or whether the Other Person wears sexy red underwear, as cheaters do it because something inside of them personally is confused or broken completely. I personally feel that the spouse that cheats does so because his or her moral code, the moral "barometer" and their values are different than the betrayed spouse. You have to want to lead a right, honest and authentic life. Some people don't care about that stuff as much as others. They don't see marriage in the same light, as fidelity is not important to them. Sometimes people merely make mistakes. But to make that mistake, you have to have wandered far away from the path you're supposed to be on and you need to figure out why you let yourself get that twisted up so you don't hurt people again. Male or female, it's all the same. When a person is good to their spouse and they sleep around on them, they feel "cheated" because they were. Hence the word cheaters. There's my 2 cents.
Dadaal Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 As we can see by many experiences, some women can cheat on their husbands if those hubbies aren't good with them, BUT can do it EVEN THOUGH they are good, loving, nice and whatever too... So I could ask now to all WOMEN here: What do you think about the reasons of those cheating wives doing it with bad and even though good husbands? Andyl..Can you have a rice for a lunch everyday for x years? But you don't mind changing the menu, right?
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