Rodee05 Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 I'm gonna try and make this short and to the point even though its a long story........ I met this guy who wasn't from my city , but there to help out his music career he's trying to start. We connected right way with each other and it felt like we've known each other for years...and like two weeks after we met we decided to start dating, and we knew that once he leaves it was going to be a long distance relationship and both agreed to to it, because he was only in my city for about 2 months..well within those two months we were good spending time with each other almost everyday... untill the week before he leaves we talk about us and he starts saying he's having doubts about the relationship because he was saying how he's a different person back in his town and what he means by that is he's like a lil celebrity in his town because he's a singer and how girls be coming up to him and all that..I told him I don't care about them other girls because I know what we had. So I was upset and hurt because we both wanted to be together. He calmed me down saying don't worry about we're still going to try it and I was like okay....... So the night before he leaves I wanted to spend time with him, but his friends took him out instead and I was upset about it. then the thing that really hurt was that he didn't even tell me goodbye or let me know he made it home safely. So i was upset so i emailed him a few days later and he was like hey boo, i miss you and all that jazz, and i asked him why he didn't tell me goodbye, but he didn't answer me. He was telling me that he's really busy trying to get his music started and all so I left him alone for a few days then I would email him and he'll reply, but when I would call he wouldn't call me back and when I would get in touch with him over the phone he would say he's busy and he'll call me back but he never would. When in the beginning the phone calls were split between us equally and now i'm doing all the calling and emailing and I told him it felt like he wasn't being my man and i asked him did he still want to be with me and he said he's not sure because of the distance and all this was said through email.......... So I been stressed out lately and crying going to bed and crying waking up, things were so good at first but he pulls this stunt on me that had me lost. so I took it upon myself to call it quits which i didn't want to but I didn't want to keep stressing myself out and it was causing problems with me at school(college) and when I told him that we should break up he was like okay and we can still be friends and keep in touch. I told him I would and he said he would too... I'm just so lost still even though we're not together because I was such a good girlfriend to him and he was good to me. we told each other about our pasts relationship he told me he only had one girlfriend he was with through high school and she cheated on him when he moved away and found out about it and he was hurt badly because he was with her for 3 years. And he told me I'm different from other girls that he would talk to and that it was a good difference and that i'm real and a good person.... Why would he all of a sudden act like that? I don't think it could be another female because he didn't show any signs that he was talking to some other girl(s).... PLEASE HELP ME OUT! I know that's long but that was the quickest way to get it out....HELP HELP HELP and oh yeah we're both 20 years old.....
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