Green Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 Im really good at getting girls and getting physical and all that. But it seems when ever I try to get myself a gf I fail horibly and end up getting dumped or what ever(having to fill in the pieces of escentialy being dumped flaked out). I think Im just not going to care any more Im done for a while Im just going to have a fun time with the ladies and not even try to progress into relationships. what does this mean. Im not going to call after sex. Im not going to talk about gf bf stuff and I will not be meeting anyones parents or going and gay old trips to the museum with her family. Im a new man, a wiser man, I see the light I'll be happier if I take my new approach the old one sucked and it screwed me over every time... every... and not in the good way... What I'm saying is a casual non commited style to dating is what I will be using from now and atleast the entire summer... maybe till october... and if I find myself wanting to take it to that lets go steady level do gay things like cuddle and watch comedies I'm going to stop myself... Only drinking... Sex... Making out... dancing... and hot tubs and beach sports for me... NO family meetings... Couch Cudling...Or calling just talk... I will hang up and act like im real busy.. which I always am anyways doing stuff Id wrather be then listening to how some girl bothered her or some **** like that
Max Overclock Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 Congratulations my friend. You're on the path to enlightenment. Please spread the word. Max
IrishCarBomb Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 So you're going to solve your problem by completely avoiding it? Good luck.
DanielMadr Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 Hey KMT, have you identified what do you do wrong? Inner wuss comes out or arent you too appeasing or too detached? Remember girls do marry nice guys....its so easy to take advantage of them.
burning 4 revenge Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 You're on the right track. If I were your age I'd chase some skirts in their late thirties, or so. You'll have the time of your life with older women (Man I wish I was 23 again)
Author Green Posted April 12, 2007 Author Posted April 12, 2007 thanks Max I do feel enlightnened, And Burning if I get the chance to have fun with a hot 30 year old you wont see me saying no. Irish avoiding my problem is a good idea its like avoiding car bombs, and DMadr I never had nice guy stuff I just dont care and plan on playing it that way for a while atleast the summer.
VirtualInsanity Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 No big deal if you don't want one but when you do, don't you want to know what went wrong?
Author Green Posted April 12, 2007 Author Posted April 12, 2007 My take on what went wrong is that the past two girls have ended up being psychotic or something and whether I had dont what I did or not things would have ended so Im just taking an aproach of not caring for the next few months pow
reservoirdog1 Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 Dude, you've probably become the personal hero to a lot of guys out there. You've apparently tapped into a reservoir of single women who just want a roll in the hay but no commitment. That being said, maybe you do get clingy too fast. Best thing i can suggest is, if you sleep with a girl and really like her, follow up the next day with an email, text or voicemail -- something like "had a great time with you, like to see you again, my number is _____, give me a shout sometime." Then you've put the ball in her court. DON'T call a second time. If she really dug you, she'll figure she can safely call without giving up too much of HER power. And if she didn't dig you, she won't call. Either way, you don't come off seeming like a wuss.
IpAncA Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 Dude, you've probably become the personal hero to a lot of guys out there. You've apparently tapped into a reservoir of single women who just want a roll in the hay but no commitment. My take on what went wrong is that the past two girls have ended up being psychotic or something and whether I had dont what I did or not things would have ended so Im just taking an aproach of not caring for the next few months pow Couple of psychotic's....I see. If you don't want to care then don't care. Just don't pass up on something that could turn out to be something great.
funnyguy91 Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 haha good job man...... i wish it was that simple for me now. i used to have your newly acquired life style and to be honest, it gets tiring after a while. your gonna see you actually do want to care about and ****. Hopefully you dont because it a pain in the ass.....so good luck
pelagicsands Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 Well man, whatever you decide to do, you know that you have my full support. Just remember to work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like no one's watching.
Author Green Posted April 13, 2007 Author Posted April 13, 2007 Your talking to a man who took the trash out in no more the my boxers on a cold winters night. If she thinks Im going to her college prom with her she can eat herself, I dont think this summer will get tiring. You know what was tiring going over to her place to meet up with the family for the museum and then eating crappy dinner at her place where every one kept telling me to take more food ... I was full darnit full, I didnt take more food and I hate that house the other day she wasnt ready when I got there so I just said I had to do something and Id be back... Pow it begins.. Im not going in the house... I will date more women... And I will whatever when ever psyche
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