beachwrangler Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 Well, my girlfriend of three years recently broke up with {me} last month. But to give you the whole story, last year when i was a senior in high school she wouldn't allow me to do anything camping trips, parties, beachweek etc. Well, eventually, after months of this i couldn't take any more and broke it off. It was over it. A week later, I got in a relationship with another girl and at first was so happy to be away from the ex and felt new and refreshed. My ex called me for weeks, begging and pleading, and the more she did the more it pushed me away. Well, once she stopped all contact and as time went by, a month and a half to be exact, that negative feeling for her went away. All i could think about was the positive and started to compare the new girl with the ex and realized how much i loved my ex. We got back together. Well, in February of this year she told me she felt like she was missing out on high school and that's when i knew ... uh oh, here it goes. cause shes a senior this year. Well, March 9th there was a camping trip with the boyz and was only for a couple days. She said that if i go, it would be over. I didn't believe that, so i went. i get back a day early to surprise her but call her and no response. No response for a week. Actually, until i went to her house and she told me, "It's over, I'm done with it. I don't care anymore and I'm happier without you. We'll never get back together." She did say i was her first true love ... i mean 3 years ... and she said i will always have a big part of her heart. But now, she's been in another relationship for the last two weeks and basically she hates me more than anything, probably due to her only thinking about the negative. I think i should have no contact with her for the next month to a month and a half because maybe, as time goes by, she will realize what we did have was special. Time will heal those negative feelings i know by experience. I'm just wondering what i should do and if my situation is hopeless because deep down i believe our love was true but right now i just don't know.
tikigods Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 You never really gave yourself time to get over her, you jumped right into another relationship and so its natural to wonder what could ahve been and compare the two when you dont give yoruself time to do anything else. Sounds to me that you are both to young to be in a steady relationship, and by that I mean this is the itme of your lives that you should be out camping and having fun and not in a controlling relationship like you are innow.
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