Mare Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 There has been this guy in and out of my life for like the past 4 years. We dated BUT he cheated on me and I dumped him. We still are good friends, and I STILL love him, but just dont know what to do. He had another GF, and when she cheated on him, he dumped her and started calling me again. Then out of the blue, nothing, nada. ( he was away at basic training) well he is home now, and was home for 2 days before he got ahold of me and I heard through the grapevine that he stopped into see her at work the day after he got back, yet he still texes me and says "Hey sexy" and flirts with me. I have pulled back a bit and am not texing back as much. Well he is having a big party this weekend, a big welcome home party. Should I go or what? Does he like me at all? He asks his friends about me, etc. He gets jelous if his friends flirt with me. What is going on?
Topper Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Guilt, fear, Pain, Who Knows? Maybe Bootcamp helped him grow up some. Just go to the Party and have fun. Maybe at the party ask if he could make some plans to meet you later on in the week so the two of you can talk.
norajane Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Why would you want to go back to a guy who cheated on you once already? So he can do it again?
fallendisguise Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 Why would you want to go back to a guy who cheated on you once already? So he can do it again? That could not have been said better!!!
rafielistener Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 honey, that guy is having you as part of his this-are-my-girls museum..dont ever let any guy be an instrument of his desire, unless of course, he is yours..if not..na ahhh...
Author Mare Posted April 12, 2007 Author Posted April 12, 2007 ok, when we first dated, I was 14 he was going on 17, and lets face it, I had NO experience. That was when he cheated with some girl. We have been on and off since. I am now going to be 18 in a couple of months and he is 20. So anyways, I am so confused. I have dated other guys, but nothing serious, he has dated alot, and we always seem to gravitate back towards each other. HIs girlfriends usually just hate me, when I have done nothing. I would never mess with him when he is dating someone I was thinking of going to the party, dressed to kill of course, staying for a while then leaving. If HE wants to call ME, he can. I am NOT going to ask HIM out, when he was home for christmas, we saw each other everyday, hung out etc. then the night before he flew back we were on the phone talking untill he abosolutely HAD to get on the plane, I told him then that I wished we could have had time alone, just him and I, he said he did too. Ahhhh, I dont know what it is about him that I just cant get over. I feel it from him to . I just dont know what to do. I also am soooooooooooooo different from the girls he has dated, they are, in my opinion, skanky, slutty etc. or head cases. You know, the easy girls, I am not like that at all. I am going on to college, have goals, morals etc. I am not a fridgid moron, but I am no skank either. I just am confused. Then, if it is nite time and I am out, he will tex me "Where are you?" and "Who are you with?" stuff like that. Then out of the blue I will get a tex in the am, "Good morning beautiful" or "Hey sexy whats up?" My heart WANTS to believe that he cares and all, but I just dont want to get hurt. What now? Should I still go to the party?
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