Author kepners Posted April 12, 2007 Author Posted April 12, 2007 so, in essance thats what it boils down to, women want everything, and men have to make do cavemen rock! i dont know what kind of man that would not stick up for his bird but would also have the comman sense not to have a tearup - knowing there is a good chance she could have started it
DanielMadr Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 so, in essance thats what it boils down to, women want everything, and men have to make do cavemen rock! i dont know what kind of man that would not stick up for his bird but would also have the comman sense not to have a tearup - knowing there is a good chance she could have started it You dont have to pass 'Kick that sabre tiger azz' test these days. You dont have to provide or protect like you had to. You just need that attitude. You have it or you dont. You have girl or you dont. Its not that hard these days...maybe thats why its so difficult to grow up. Now. When you are the whole package you can demand the same in your girl (good looks, caring, giving, loyal, morals, integrity, good mother.......). It is tough to be a man. And it is tough to be a woman too. She has to be pretty, sexy all the time too. She has to make you feel comfortable etc. Dont try to change world....change yourself first. Commies, nazis and all that shyt tried to change it.....it brought only millions of dead and azzholes on top of food chain. I know a couple of guys who have good marriages. You know what? They are hard as f@ck. They never let the guard down. And its hard for them, they have feelings, but they dont show it. Men dont cry. Especially not about themselves. Self pitty is for 7years old. Shrinks say its wrong. Yeah lifes not perfect. You cant have everything. Decide.
VirtualInsanity Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 Kepners, is it bothering you that someone tested you? For me, I never tell anyone.
Author kepners Posted April 12, 2007 Author Posted April 12, 2007 tested me? because i raised the question? well there is probably some logic there. i want my ex, and she has been testin me alot, for instance this evening, telling me she may go out to a party blah blah blah. then rings me twice today to chat cuz shes bored. then wants me to see her all dressed up 'though my friend net to bother, but u know me i love dressing up and looking my best' to be told by me, its ok jess i dont need to see you its fine, and i am not going on msn this evening cuz i am off to the pool. oh is the reply, then she starts talking about something else. i cant remember theni tell her she best go cuz shes being picked up in a few hours blah blah... ignores me 5mins laters says, i gotta go cuz i need to get ready, i reply well i wont speak to you so have a good evening speak soon. ook she says and says byeee i think there are some reactionry tests there! cuz when we was going out i sued to hate her going out with out me. but thats a boy thing. what do you think? BUT THATS NOT WHY I DID THE POST
serial muse Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 tested me? because i raised the question? well there is probably some logic there. i want my ex, and she has been testin me alot, for instance this evening, telling me she may go out to a party blah blah blah. then rings me twice today to chat cuz shes bored. then wants me to see her all dressed up 'though my friend net to bother, but u know me i love dressing up and looking my best' to be told by me, its ok jess i dont need to see you its fine, and i am not going on msn this evening cuz i am off to the pool. oh is the reply, then she starts talking about something else. i cant remember theni tell her she best go cuz shes being picked up in a few hours blah blah... ignores me 5mins laters says, i gotta go cuz i need to get ready, i reply well i wont speak to you so have a good evening speak soon. ook she says and says byeee i think there are some reactionry tests there! cuz when we was going out i sued to hate her going out with out me. but thats a boy thing. what do you think? BUT THATS NOT WHY I DID THE POST Okay, this is going to sound harsh. But since you ask - here's what I think. After reading this bit about your ex, I think that deep down, you deeply enjoy the drama, and that's why you picked a woman who clearly likes to bring it. Perhaps you even enjoy being "tested" to an extent - as long as you feel like you're going to pass? Why else would you want this woman who strings you along? Your initial post was a(n annoying) "test" of how women on here would react to an incendiaryish post. Yes, you test people too. Everybody tests everybody when they're feeling insecure, when they just really don't want to put themselves out there first. It's called being passive-aggressive. Women do it, men do it. But like I said, the PEOPLE who do it most are the people who are most insecure about appearing vulnerable. (And that includes people who post things like - "I have these questions about why women are XXX or men do XXX but I'll only tell you why I'm asking later after you've all responded so that I can then swoop in and berate whoever of the opposite gender has responded about why they're wrong but also proving my point and blah blah" etc. etc.) Okay?
Author kepners Posted April 12, 2007 Author Posted April 12, 2007 i have never thought about it like that. or even thought i like being tested... or even thought about liking drama queens who string me along. But i do have my fair share of... loons! HAHA i cant tell you i have thought about like that... i dont know. hmmmm
DanielMadr Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 tested me? because i raised the question? well there is probably some logic there. i want my ex, and she has been testin me alot, for instance this evening, telling me she may go out to a party blah blah blah. then rings me twice today to chat cuz shes bored. then wants me to see her all dressed up 'though my friend net to bother, but u know me i love dressing up and looking my best' to be told by me, its ok jess i dont need to see you its fine, and i am not going on msn this evening cuz i am off to the pool. oh is the reply, then she starts talking about something else. i cant remember theni tell her she best go cuz shes being picked up in a few hours blah blah... ignores me 5mins laters says, i gotta go cuz i need to get ready, i reply well i wont speak to you so have a good evening speak soon. ook she says and says byeee i think there are some reactionry tests there! cuz when we was going out i sued to hate her going out with out me. but thats a boy thing. what do you think? BUT THATS NOT WHY I DID THE POST Your ex probably wants you to be head over heels on her. 'I cant live without you baby, come back.' sort of thing. Or she wans to date you again....to dump you again later or b/c she cant find anyone better. If you want her back, which I dont recommend, tell her 'You want to see me right? I have nothing against it. Just tell me.'
chaos40 Posted April 13, 2007 Posted April 13, 2007 Do women test men when we start dating? Does a one legged duck swim in circles?
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