kepners Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 a simple question with lots of sub questions, Do women test men when we start dating? If so why do women do it? what purpose does it serve? Have you ever tested a man? why? What happens if a man fails THE TEST? or passes the TEST? IF there is NO test, why do men get put in situations/make it look like your being tested? why do men think they are being tested by women when ur first start going out? i have my own views on this, but i want to here what everyone else has to say and explain how they see things.
2ndIINone Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Do women test men when we start dating? Does a bear sh$# in the woods?
Woggle Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Some women want to see if a man will stand up for himself so they try to pull some crap to see if he will go for it. Many men fail the test.
Author kepners Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 Does a bear sh$# in the woods? polar bears?and i am bear size... and often called a bear i sont **** there! HAHAHAH love it! HAHAH K
Author kepners Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 Some women want to see if a man will stand up for himself so they try to pull some crap to see if he will go for it. Many men fail the test. why why why? how far will women go, why do you want to see if we will stand up for ourselves? does a woman waiting hours to reply to text a test? or not replying at all? or maybe waiting until you talk first on msn a test? hehe K
2ndIINone Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 does a woman waiting hours to reply to text a test? or not replying at all? or maybe waiting until you talk first on msn a test? yes, yes and yes. Why? A security/ego/does he love me?/will he stand by me/ how strong is he BOOST!
Woggle Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 why why why? how far will women go, why do you want to see if we will stand up for ourselves? does a woman waiting hours to reply to text a test? or not replying at all? or maybe waiting until you talk first on msn a test? hehe K Because with men being emasculated the way we are today some women want to know iof a man has balls. Whether women admit it or not they are not attracted to emasculated men.
boshemia Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 No more than guys test a woman... we look for compatibility, the possibility of a future, and for long term attraction factors. When I met my current husband I just wanted to make sure he didn't have the issues my ex had, I asked him about many of those things. Some I tested him on... I did go through his wallet (in front of him) to see if he had a girlfriend lol. The thing is no girls "test" is going to be the same. We are all looking for a different combination of personality traits and baggage. I have no problem dating a guy with a child, I have three of my own. Many girls just can't handle that kind of bagagge. I was just looking for baggage that matched mine : )
2ndIINone Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 I was just looking for baggage that matched mine : ) :laugh::laugh:
alphamale Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 women are constantly testing men during dating, marriage and beyond. women will even test their dead husband at the funeral to make sure he's not faking. i assume they get some jollies out of doing this.
Topper Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Stick a needle in his arm to make sure isn't faking to get away from her nagging! We get selected, Inspected, rejected and re-selected. In the end we know we will be neglected. so what else is new?
alphamale Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 We get selected, Inspected, rejected and re-selected. In the end we know we will be neglected. so what else is new? well TOPPER....if she can make a decent pot roast and is OK in bed then we'll let all that other stuff slide.
Author kepners Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 i only see one woman has stepped up to defend them. hold on, why arnt they coming on here saying more. i have to know more about what happens about passing or failing?
2ndIINone Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 if she can make a decent pot roast and is OK in bed then we'll let all that other stuff slide. :laugh: i only see one woman has stepped up to defend them and she admitted to testing as well. At least she was honest.
Vera_Louise Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 why why why? how far will women go, why do you want to see if we will stand up for ourselves? does a woman waiting hours to reply to text a test? or not replying at all? or maybe waiting until you talk first on msn a test? hehe K I don't answer texts from men I'm dating. It's not a test, I just don't consider that real conversation. If he wants to talk to me, he can be a man and pick up the phone. Same with msn.
VirtualInsanity Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 a simple question with lots of sub questions, Do women test men when we start dating? If so why do women do it? what purpose does it serve? Have you ever tested a man? why? What happens if a man fails THE TEST? or passes the TEST? Of course silly. Why not?
boshemia Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 You gotta have a lot more information that just pass or fail dude. I know what I am looking for, and while dating I am trying to see if you are "it" consider it a relationship job interview. Do I want to marry you? Do I want to date you for awhile and see how it goes, do I want to just sleep with you, or do I want to run as fast as I can? Every girl is different, I am much more concerned with personality and intelligence than I am with a bank account... but some girls... ehh... read it for yourself. http://www.snopes.com/love/dating/casey.htm Now that is a B!t@h
alphamale Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 i have to know more about what happens about passing or failing? if you "pass" you get to keep the girl...if you "fail" enough tests then she moves on.
Author kepners Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 of course why not? o...k thats not really an answer just an agreement with a question. an answer involves an explaination and reasoning? well thats what my lectures tells me! and she can shout! K
boshemia Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 okay describe some of what you felt you were being tested on and maybe we can explain a bit more about it. At the moment, there are just too many general "what ifs" and my answer isn't going to be the same as anyone elses... we are all different : )
VirtualInsanity Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 of course why not? o...k thats not really an answer just an agreement with a question. an answer involves an explaination and reasoning? well thats what my lectures tells me! and she can shout! K You asked "Do women test men when we start dating?" I answered that. Yes women do. Stupid not to. I already see a test that would be done on you. :laugh:
Author kepners Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 i want to know why we have to be tested, isnt being a MAN enough? as for testing of course i am being tested, but simply i ur saying a women being on the face of it removed of nasty or ignorant or condesending is a woman testing a man?? do women talk about testing there men>?
alphamale Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 i want to know why we have to be tested, isnt being a MAN enough? dude, just cause you were born with male genitalia doesn't mean you're a man by default. you could also be a mouse. the test is what differentiates which one you are. the "man" gets to reproduce and pass on his DNA....the "mouse" gets nothing but an old hunk of cheese
melodymatters Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Using the word "test" is misleading. Don't we all, penis OR vagina, want to figure out if the person we are having this first or second date with is compatable with us and our values ? Isn't that what dating is about ? Sure, if I find out through casual early conversation that you are into swinging, don't believe in marriage, just want to do drugs all day, whatever the case may be, I might not want to date you further and I KNOW guys are the same, albeit with different parameters. If there is some other "test" being referred to here, then again I would stop looking at the chromosonal make up and start looking at ; " is this a game playing, trouble causing, psycho freak ?"
alphamale Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Sure, if I find out through casual early conversation that you are into swinging, don't believe in marriage, just want to do drugs all day, whatever the case may be, I might not want to date you further and I KNOW guys are the same, albeit with different parameters. Men do test....but our testing is much shorter and less comprehensive. We also don't obsess about the results as much as women do.
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