New Hope Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Me and my ex girlfriend broke up in December because she wanted a break from the relationship. We had a 5 year history together of on and off the last year and half of it was serious and long distance because she ended up moving to Florida I was her first everything. In the month of December we broke up and reason we broke up was because of another guy despite her saying no, this dude is 31 yrs old shes only 19 and they work together. She has no friends in Florida, all she does is work, school and visit her parents because she is dorming so she felt lonely...after a month of no contact we ended talking on valentines day I made sure I dated other people because she ended up dating this guy and having sex with him, she told me about the sex afterwards because I went back to NC again and she called telling me she wanted to work things out, so the whole month of March we try working things out but she was to insecure with me and other women and she felt she came back to soon, so I told her if we dont workout we cannot be friends and im leaving her life for good!!! so she felt she didnt want to be held down so I let her go and she never hearing from me again and we been in NC for over 2 weeks, I dont want her back after all the crap one's been thru..does anybody think she'll ever return again because it bugs me out how she just accept me not talking to her again and I know she ran back to the guy. It sucks shes not in person to really tell her how I feel, feel like knocking her out..anybody think she'll ever call again or even realize again her mistake?
westernxer Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 ...anybody think she'll ever call again or even realize again her mistake? Doesn't matter. You've got to do your best to move on. Some people never learn, even as they get older. She's only 19 though, so anything goes.
KaneNAbel Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 The girl I recently dated was 27. And she STILL can't figure out what she wants. Found out she was a bonafide drama queen to begin with, after the fact. Wish I saw it coming before the situation hit me like a hurricane.
Author New Hope Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 Thanks guys, do you feel it was a good move from part to cut it off? I felt good this time around because it was me who ended instead of her doing it to me..I dont hate her..but she's not my favorite person, plus she lacks experience...but im going to do my best to not speak to her because how would I look if I call her after I said she is never going to hear from me again...plus when we werent talking thats how she started missing me...
Ssheena Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 You are asking a couple of questions that you could ask an 8 ball and get about the same sort of answer from. It's not possible to say whether or not she will ever return - and do you want someone back who just runs from one guy to another anyway? You are the one that should know whether or not you did the right thing by cutting it off. Do you think you did? Make a list of the pros/cons - example - she lacks experience - she didn't come clean on the 31 year old - what are the if any, pros about her? You guys were off/on together for 5 years and she's 19??? That means you have known each other since she was 14? She has a LOT of experiences to be had and so do you. Leave her alone for now and perhaps she will come back to you in a few years. Just don't sit around and wait and hope for it to happen. At this point it is all about YOU.
Author New Hope Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 I believe what I did was right, I known her since she was 13, I made up her teenage years she had her other boyfriends but always wanted to be with me..so you can say she was with them because she couldnt have me at those times..as for sex and everything else im all she knew until this 31yr old dude..I was mad at the fact she left, cameback to leave again...yeah im moving on with my life and im talking to some other girl, it sucks because we was very cool with eachother when we were in the same state no problems but the distance cause alot of problems...so I let her go and experience....because I refuse to fall into the friend bubble while she doing the next guy...silent treatment to me is the best form of revenge.. I wish her the best of luck at whatever she does..It just bugs me out that she accept us never talking again in this lifetime....dont know what the future holds but I must do what is must...
Author New Hope Posted April 12, 2007 Author Posted April 12, 2007 I saw my myspace page through a friend how my ex hack it, does that mean anything? because I dont go on myspace no more... after what I told her that I dont wanna hear from her...
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