rafie Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 hi everyone!!! first of all i find this stupid but i seem to be confused about my situation right now.. for the past one month i have been seeing this girl from work..it started out on a conversation about stress in work and having somebody to talk to after a hard day...and one thing lead to another...we go out to dinner, we go out for a walk, go the park, eat lunch..almost everything for two weeks..we're glued to each other..after a couple of weeks, she got sick..she called me that she was in the hospital and i decided to stay with her in the hospital for four days, stayover for the night and go to work in the morning, i just let my housemates bring me some stuff and i go straight back to her after work, for four days..then she finally went home..during those times in the hospital,we were like a couple..i wish..oh and her boyfriend? he went there twice..for a couple of hours and off he went..the night before she went back home i decided to go home and run some errands..the next morning she left a voice mail telling me that she is going home that day and she wanted me to call back, which i did, and she didnt answer..so i left a voice message telling her how happy i was that she's going home.. after that day, i never heard from her anymore..for five days...until she called me in another number, telling me that she got a new number and finally she thanked me for the things that ive done for her..and after that she was silent..i call her, she answers, and she's always in a middle of something and that she's going to call back which she never did.. im just wondering what's on her mind right now?
Enema Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Perhaps she came to her senses and realized that she's got a boyfriend and continuing to lead you on is the Wrong thing to do? Perhaps her boyfriend brought this to her attention, or maybe she realized it herself but in either case man... SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. Leave her alone until she's single.
DanielMadr Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Worst case of 'Too Nice Guy' I ever read. Do you want her? Or you just feel alone? If you really want her, call her and ask her out. Have fun. Keep your mouth shut about your feelings or her boyfriend. Have it fun like it used to. When you two give each other good bye....KISS HER softly and stroke her hair. If she freaks out you have your answer...you are gay friend to her. If she melts you are in. Wave her goodbye and go home in either case. Is she married or pregnant? NO? Then her boyfriend is nothing.
DanielMadr Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 i call her, she answers, and she's always in a middle of something and that she's going to call back which she never did.. Not good. There is slight chance she can change her mind in time. It means call less. Find another one.
Enema Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Is she married or pregnant? NO? Then her boyfriend is nothing. I'm starting to understand why women try to knee you in the groin.
blind_otter Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 I dated my current partner while I had a LDR boyfriend. I'd say she's probably busy with her boyfriend and feels guilty about cheating on him, so she's incommunicado for a few days. I'd also recommend that you stay away from attached women until they get the courage to break off their current relationship. It'll all end in tears, as they say.
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