celesten10 Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 I just got out of this tumultous LTR. 2 weeks ago i go out and try to clear my head and find new prospects. I never thought it would be so quick. Ofcourse the quickest way to leave my ex in the past would be to hit the bar scene with my friends. I meet this great looking guy, and it turns out he has a girlfriend who's in Rehab (for crystal meth!??) in L.A, but will move over to NY in 2 months. He's never tried that stuff, otherwise i wouldn't even come close. However, the next day he calls and wants to hang out, i go over and socialize with him and his friends. I am having a great and flirty convo with one of his best buddies, but still he comes onto me in such a direct way, i push him away, i remind him that he has a GF numerous times (she calls him like 5 times a day). He mentions that he loves her, but cannot keep his hands off of me, kisses me, and can't stop complimenting me from head to toe. Which is just what i want to hear post-breakup. The next night he calls and we meet up and I just couldn't resist anymore, and we do the deed. It was amazing, better than my ex and more (!!) Right after sex she calls him various times while we're still in bed, until he picks up. Right away, i get up and put my clothes on and try to get my stuff together, he grabs my hand and tells her that he will call her later. We've been hanging out every other day since we met. He called me drunk last week 10 times! at 3AM and tells me he had an awful fight with his friend and that he needed me and has to see me right then(?!) i go over and we just snuggle and i take care of him. Then, he says "i love you just for being here w/ me" and asks me if that was too much for me to take, i know he wasn't sober so i just listen. He's also younger 22, i am 25. He is the opposite of my ex, and so alive. what i need right now but.. Yes i feel horrible, he's a scumbag and i knew he was in a relationship, and i was weak to his charms and persistance. On Saturday we got into an argument (already!) because i was being COLD. And i stormed out, but apologized by text. Silly me. He texts back and wishes me a happy easter. and that was the end of it, i never replied back since then. I don't wanna get emotionally involved with him or anybody. But there is clearly a strong connection in such a short time, and i cannot stop thinking about him and the next time i'm gonna see him, this is so wrong but if he calls i'm afraid i will fall for it. What do i do??!
melodymatters Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 Quote: "He texts back and wishes me a happy easter. and that was the end of it" AND, that was the end of it. You wanted some fun and to exorcise your ex, and thats what you got. He has a girlfriend, he has a gilrfriend he's willing to cheat on. he calls you 10 times,he calls you drunk and basically sounds like a mess himself. remeber your little fling and Smile, and leave it at that.
mental_traveller Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Depends what you want. If you're prepared to have a quick fling then get cheated on/dumped by a player who screws around while his gf is in rehab, then go ahead and have some fun as long as you are prepared to deal with the consequences. If however you think that outcome would cause you a lot of pain and hurt, then it would be best to totally avoid him.
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