Brunette_Babygurl Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 Recently me and my boyfriends mate have been getting close, we both like eachother but have not done anythingHes told me he wants a relationship with me but it can never happen because loyalty is number 1. He told me last night that I should get over him and that hes used to turning off and forgetting things Now hes ignoring me. Surely if he likes me enough to want to be with me he cant get over me so easily, can he?
Lauriebell82 Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 ok wait a sec, ur talking about liking ur bfs friend, and ur pissed because he doesnt want to get involved with his friend's gf? do ur bf a favor and dump him. and if u go out with ur bf's friend right afterward, then u dont have much respect for him. its obvious u dont care about ur bf anymore, otherwise u wouldnt be lusting after his friend. sounds like u want to pursue other guys, so break up with ur bf and do so. i'd forget about his freind though, if u too end up going out it will probably devestate ur bf. if ur both willing to do that fine, but i dont know if u guys will ever be happy knowing the pain u've caused someone u both care about. break upwith ur bf, and move on. there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Author Brunette_Babygurl Posted April 10, 2007 Author Posted April 10, 2007 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]I know your right and I will break up with him, im not a nasty person and I never meant to fall for paul.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman]Will it really be that easy for paul to just forget me?[/FONT]
someone2 Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 I think she is saying that the friend of her bf likes her, but she doesn't want to cheat on her bf, but I am not sure. Clearly English is not her first language
Author Brunette_Babygurl Posted April 10, 2007 Author Posted April 10, 2007 Hilarious, at least you got the first part right. I do like paul but i would never betray matt. It feels like pauls playing mind games, one minute he wants me next he dosnt want anything to do with me. If you like someone enough to be willing to have a relationship with them then surely your feelings arnt going to change straight away are they???? ilarious!
Lauriebell82 Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 Hilarious, at least you got the first part right. I do like paul but i would never betray matt. It feels like pauls playing mind games, one minute he wants me next he dosnt want anything to do with me. If you like someone enough to be willing to have a relationship with them then surely your feelings arnt going to change straight away are they???? ilarious! if ur afraid his feelings for u are going to change overnight it is highly unlikely. he's probably confused over having feelings for u and not betraying his friend. he probably wants to be around u, but its hard cause he doesnt want to be unloyal to his friend. the only thing u can really do is break up with ur bf, then see what paul thinks about the deal. if u still cares about u then he might be willing to start something up, but that would be betraying his friend as well so i wouldnt count on it. ur headed for a messy situation. to answer ur question, no his feelings are not going to change right away. he is probably trying to seperate himself from the stiuation, because his head and heart are telling him two seperate things. it seems like he's playing games, but he's probably very confused. this whole thing could just end up blowing up in ur face, so like i said i would leave it alone. if ur breaking up with ur bf fine, but dont do it to get paul.
Author Brunette_Babygurl Posted April 10, 2007 Author Posted April 10, 2007 That explains why hes now ignoring me all together. I just fell for him so quickly. He kept saying he wanted to be with me and that he wanted to see me then the next minute hes telling me theres no way in hell because of matt and basically telling me to get over him. If he just said from the beginning that he liked me but there was no hope i would be fine but everytime we see eachother he says he wants me then a day later hes telling me basically to get lost!! We had a massive arguement last night and i told him he had hurt me by the way he has been since telling me. Hot then cold lol. He just said that hurting one person was better then hurting alot of ppl. If he truly cared about me and really wanted me then surely he would of never said that,would he?
Author Brunette_Babygurl Posted April 10, 2007 Author Posted April 10, 2007 Wouldnt he hate the fact im with matt aswell? God im confused!
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