Very_Confused Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 I didn't even realize it until my mother-in-law called but today is our 8th Anniversary. I don't think my husband has realized it yet either, but she'll call him too I'm sure. I wonder if it means I will get "anniversary sex" tonight. Woohoo, yay! I got a "Valentine's-2nd base" and a "March-quickie" that left him satisfied and me frustrated. Not sure if I should get excited about tonight's possibilities or not. If it's like the last time I'll just end up taking a cold shower and crying in my pillow. I guess I'll just have to wait and see.
Enema Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Yeah you should wait for him to initiate, do all the work and leave you satisfied without speaking up. Great Plan.
Author Very_Confused Posted April 9, 2007 Author Posted April 9, 2007 Who said I was going to wait for him to initiate? I am usually the one who does and the majority of the time I get turned down. I just figured that tonight I might actually get a "yes".
whichwayisup Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 You need to talk to your H and fix the marriage, otherwise you won't make it to your 8th anniversary. Why stay unhappy and not say anything? Don't be passive about it, TALK to him! If he isn't willing to fix things or atleast put in some effort, you're going to waste many years of your life unhappy. Not too sure of the issues, but you don't seem happy at all...
Gunny376 Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Just wait until he goes to bed, and when he gets all "UuuuummmmUmmmmm under the covers, walk in and in your best Marine Corps Drill Instructor Voice yell at him! STAND AND DELIVER!!
Mz. Pixie Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Next time he leaves you unsatisfied roll over and start masturbating really loud. If he asks what the hell you're doing tell him "You won't satisfy me so I'm satisfying myself" A friend of mine did that and her husband started paying more attention to her satisfaction.
Mr. Lucky Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 I got a "Valentine's-2nd base" and a "March-quickie" that left him satisfied and me frustrated. Are you implying that you've only had sex once a month in that time? If so, why wait 'til tonite to find out? Call your H and ask him what his plans are for tonite! Go get 'em Mr. Lucky
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