Tomasthecat Posted April 9, 2007 Share Posted April 9, 2007 Okay so out of four siblings I am the oldest and my sister is in the middle to last sibling. We have profiles on Myspace and so we chit chat ever so often. The only times i've had serious conversations with her is when shes doing something stupid. So as the older sister I'm giving her a butt chewing. I know she doesn't like it I know she won't do it but I tell anyway. I know we've have this sibling riverly(she was the favorite, I loathed sharing a room with her, she would purposly get me in trouble) and all but what she is doing now is plain disrespecting me. My husband is on Myspace as well, shes made it a habit to email him. She tells him about her future plans, I hear it from my husband. We might go visit my family next summer. She asked him if he wanted to get together with one of his friends that lives close by and she would invite all her friends so they could go out clubing together. (She never mentioned me) A few months ago she told him that she doesn't know why I don't take care of myself. That if she had a man like him she would take care of herself. I know she might hold some resentment toward me because within the last year she has fallen from my dads good graces. And I on the other hand have made a mends with him. We now respect each other and get along very well. I've worked hard for what I have and am doing very well for myself. While she has made some very bad choices and my parents have finally stopped giving her handouts. How should I handle this, I love her cause she is my family but I'm tired of her and her causing drama and her childish ways(she's almost 24, I had a husband a child and had finished serving my country with an assoc. by that age. She's living w/mom and dad working but not enough to support herself), and her idea that she is deserving or owed in someway. thanks, tomasthecat Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted April 9, 2007 Share Posted April 9, 2007 You shouldn't do anything. Your husband on the other hand, should know where to draw the line and if he needs to say something to pull her up. If he's a good man and you trust him, you shouldn't step in, it will make things worse. Link to post Share on other sites
lei66 Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 Wow...Thats weird....Yah, I would kick her @ss....She is very disrespectful... and I don't think that word quite covers it....You don't have to wait for your husband to step up....Thats your sister...you should tell her.... Link to post Share on other sites
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