amaysngrace Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Well a year after we met my BF brought me to meet his parents. First we went to their house and then we all went to church. His Nan, aunt, uncle, brother and sister-in-law too. Easter Saturday church and it took like two hours but it was super sweet. I got ready in 25 minutes and he helped me iron my clothes. I was pretty stressed out about it but I'm really glad I went. Of course we got hammered afterwards. He wrote three songs today that totally kick ass. So I'm completely through thinking it's just about sex anymore.
Fun2BMe Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Well that sounds great. Maybe he'll be proposing to you soon?
Author amaysngrace Posted April 9, 2007 Author Posted April 9, 2007 Maybe he'll be proposing to you soon? Um...I don't think so. Are you being sarcastic?
Fun2BMe Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Um...I don't think so. Are you being sarcastic? No, it's just that when a guy introduces someone to his parents it means they like them a lot and I"m sure his family liked you too, so I was wondering if it was something you guys had discussed.
Author amaysngrace Posted April 9, 2007 Author Posted April 9, 2007 No, it's just that when a guy introduces someone to his parents it means they like them a lot and I"m sure his family liked you too, so I was wondering if it was something you guys had discussed. Okay I get it. Thanks for the panic attack about it now. I am so not looking to get married again anytime soon if ever. I don't think he is either but he said the same thing, that I mean a lot to him for him to bring me home to meet his parents. His mom did seem to like me, and she's a pretty tough customer from what he says, but the verdict's still out. You ever been married before Fun?
Fun2BMe Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 I am so not looking to get married again anytime soon if ever. You ever been married before Fun? No, I haven't. Whenever I've been proposed I've ended the relationship, and if something gets too serious I seem to sabatoge things and run away, then get into bad relationships where there's no possibility of marriage. I don't think I'd want to go through a divorce or live with someone knowing it'll only be a matter of time until they start cheating. But I'm open to meeting someone who may miraculously change my mind about the whole thing though I doubt it'll ever happen. I'd rather switch from one serious relationship to anotehr without being tied down to it on paper, and have the ability to kick him out of my house when we fight or for me to be able to go to my own house when we fight so taking it a step further, I wouldn't want to live with someone either. I've lived with a boyfriend in the past but kept a separate apartment where I felt safe to return to and unwind whenever I needed to have my own space. I can't imagine being with someone 24/7! But who knows maybe it's because I haven't met someone who I'd feel I'd want that from. So how long ago did you divorce? You say you never want to marry again, so do you regret you ever did? I find most people marry if the person they are marrying has something they lack such as money or sex, but rarely it is out of love and even when it is, in most cases it ends in disaster with a lot of legal stuff to have to take care of. I don't understand the concept of marriage unless a woman thinks the man will take off and not be there while she's raising the children, which ends up happening anyways if the man she chose had that flaw in him to begin with.
Author amaysngrace Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 I'm like you in the way that it's nice to have two separate houses and we see each other a lot but we each have our own space. We like our space. He's divorced too. No I don't regret being married. I have two children from it all so it was worth it. I got married to get out of my parent's house I guess. Plus I was pregnant. Nice, huh? But when you're married it's like you have to be with that person because you have to, not cause you want to, you know? I don't want to have to be with anyone again. Did you ever have a guy who you wish you got to see more of though? Did it last or did he get on your nerves? Cause with my BF I wish a lot of the time that we got to see more of each other. I love spending time with him.
Fun2BMe Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Did you ever have a guy who you wish you got to see more of though? Did it last or did he get on your nerves? Cause with my BF I wish a lot of the time that we got to see more of each other. I love spending time with him. The one I wanted to see the most is the one I lived with. I loved being with him, but sometimes i just thought it was too much and needed my space. And I think distance too. If I was in one room, and him in the other, I still needed my space and had to go to my apartment to recuperate! One of my last boyfriends I'd stay over but sometimes first thing in the morning I'd want to go home even though I loved him so I don't see myself as being able to be with someone nonstop. And none of these men got on my nerves, I really enjoyed being around them! Maybe something is wrong with me:confused:
Author amaysngrace Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 Well if there's something wrong with you there's something wrong with me too. Uh-oh. You don't want to be in the same company as me. I'm a freak.
Fun2BMe Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 2 freaks don't make for a normal person:laugh: but it does make for fun
Author amaysngrace Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 No, normal is something I will never be. I don't even ever want to be normal. It seems so boring really. Not that I could possibly be normal if I tried. I don't think I even know how to be normal. I think maybe I could give it my best shot but somehow I'd just go back to being me again, which is anything but normal, you know? I guess it's a very good thing that no one would consider my BF to be normal either. This is why we get along so well I'm sure. Because like nobody in either one of our lives have ever understood us. They tried to, I guess, but just couldn't. Yet we understand each other so well. Like he says, we're on the same wave length.
Fun2BMe Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 Like he says, we're on the same wave length. That's exactly how I describe my relationship with my therapist, I say we're on the same wave length! I can't wait to see him tomorrow.
Author amaysngrace Posted April 11, 2007 Author Posted April 11, 2007 Is he cute? You better get to sleep soon so you're not all groggy-brained. I'm going to bed soon too. Have a good talk tomorrow...um...today
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