cr8sea Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 See, after my bf broke up with me I tried talking to him for a while...well that sucked cuz i felt he was kinda making me hold on. So then i did the whole NC thing...that sucked too because i kept thinking about this "wonderful" guy that i wasnt able to hold on to. However it did give me time to cool off and to understand that maybe we just werent ready for each other. That led me to talk to him again...hoping...i dont know what. In any case at first it was hard. I still wanted him back etc. But we kept talking as if we were just friends and it was obvious he didnt want me back, yet he didnt want me gone either. Then....the truth came up. I found out thru friends that he had been saying things about me. That i broke it off with him etc. I was livid. Since we were supposed to be friends i texted him about it. The next day he aimed me like nothing so i got to talk to him some more... Well....that was THE BEST thing i could do I figured out not only the he wasnt so amazing after all, but he is also a huge liar and a total idiot at that. He kept contradicting himself throught the whole conversation to the point where i started laughing and feeling bad for him. I realized who he really was, that i made him up to be this amazing person when at most, he's a decent actor and a really really bad liar. Anyway, my point is, if i had stayed with NC, the original idea of what a great guy he was would have stayed. But now i know for sure who he really is and im SOOOOO over it So careful with the NC thing....it might be a bit tricky...
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