JX2 Anarchy Posted April 8, 2007 Posted April 8, 2007 anyways, to the topic...me and this girl have been going out for 3 weeks or so.....yesterday, we went to a movie, and that was fine......everything went great.....but, while we were all discusing were we were going to go next (it was me, her, 2 of my friends, there girlfriends, and another girl) my best friend since 1st grade showed up with his dad, they had just finished watching 300, now, i have to give a bit of info away from the subject 2 weeks ago, i broke down emotionaly at our local community center....i tried to keep it to myself, and, not let the 2 of my friends that were with me know....so, i went to a place wehre i could be alone.....after awhile i calmed down a bit, and went to play some more b-ball...later that night, we were walking around town and i kicked a garbadge can lid.....and, i did sumthin to my foot, it hurt like hell..... anyweays, 5 minutes later, we were back at the center, and, i was still going through alot of ****, and, i called another one of my friends to talk to him, while i was talking, i started to break down again...... anyways, the next day, me, one of the guys that was at the center, and the guy i called were walking and, it was brought up that /Nik (the guy that was at the center but wasnt with us) had been wanting to slap me while i was breaking down....... now, im a kind of sensitive guy, so, i took that personal damn fast.....and, lost all friendship with me...... then, this thursday, we were playin b-ball again, and, he showed up, we got into the **** that normall guys do with their friends, you know, tease em for ****, then, they come back with it....yada yada, well, instead of coming back, he slams the ball in my friends face and walks away..... so, i hadnt seen him again till the movie.,....and, i had told my girl about the **** that happened, and i told her that if he even did a tenth of what he did to my friend, he wouldnt be alive long enouph to resite his ABC's, anyways, she goes up, talks to him for a few, and comes back....we talked to him, and, we all decided we were going to go to a local youth outreach.... we went, and had alot of fun for the first hour....then, she went and sat on his lap....i normally wouldnt get pissed about this, you have to know the kind of girl she is....to understand...... but, he showed alot of joy to ****, and, it didnt take me long to tell him that he should keep his ****ing hands to himself and not touch my girl (she was gone by this tiem) then, today, i get this nice little bit of an im ME: .....im just kinda pissed at klepps right now....lol Friend: i know i still dont trust him F: did i tell u waht kleeps said to me M: what F dont get mad at me M: k F: i asked him if he ad any atraction to (my girl) he said no then he said u have to try new things though and meet new people (what i said here is omited...) F: and u cant keep the same gurl for ever now, i understand that chances are, we wont be together forever, but, i love the relationship we have, and, i dont want to see it coming to an end..... anyways, the question then.... 1 How do i let her know i dont want her hanging around him, beccause of the way he is acting around her i forgot to add, mostly in my rage toward this kid right now..... The way i feal for this girl......we may have only been going out for 3 weeks, but, weve been "with" eachother so to say from more like 5.... and i have licked her for over a year, and the fealings got really ****in strong around january.......i dont LIKE HER..... i am in love with her, and, when a comment is made that we wont be together, i get the fealings that he is going to try to break us up......and, i dont like that.......the relationship has its problems the way it is........
kribby Posted April 8, 2007 Posted April 8, 2007 You seem a bit insecure and/or unstable. In this post you referenced something's that might hint at later trouble for you. You appear to want to control a portion of your life and are starting with this relationship Maybe this guy has it in his head to break up your budding relationship-- maybe he doesn't. I (yes I am female) for one have never liked anyone I have dated telling me who I can talk to. But at the same time I would never do anything to give my boyfriend any doubt. Why don't you try strengthening your relationship instead of trying to control it?
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