loveinlife Posted April 6, 2007 Posted April 6, 2007 Just a question that dawned on me bc the girl's sister that i like told my friend that M likes bad boys and I am too nice. Why do girls like bad boys?
Trialbyfire Posted April 6, 2007 Posted April 6, 2007 Not always but much of the time, it's a maturity related preference. Younger girls want the excitement of the bad boy. Once they mature, they realize that the vast majority of the bad boys bring nothing into a healthy relationship. Having said that, be honest with yourself. Are you nice or are you playing nice to get the girl?
Yamaha Posted April 6, 2007 Posted April 6, 2007 Just a question that dawned on me bc the girl's sister that i like told my friend that M likes bad boys and I am too nice. Why do girls like bad boys? In a word, Excitment( makes their panties wet ).
Author loveinlife Posted April 6, 2007 Author Posted April 6, 2007 Trialbyfire. Im the type of guy who is honest with myself and doesn't like to lie. I believe if im lying, im only lying to myself. I am respectful and give people space to grow. Girls call me genuine and my guy friends know im a nice dude with a good heart. These are some of the things i hear a lot from my friends and people i meet in a short time frame. I like treating people nice, that is just my personality. Why create a bad energy when goodness can spring upon any given moment, thus creating more happiness, thats just what i believe. I don't just treat the girl nice, but this is my character. I believe you are right about the maturity issue. She is only 19 and i am 26. I know, it is a big age difference. I never thought i would like a young person like that, first time for everything i guess. Yahama, loved your response. lol Thanks for the replies. =) Any comments and opinions are welcomed.
ash519 Posted April 6, 2007 Posted April 6, 2007 Also, women tend to be nurturing by nature and most bad boys have deep seeded issues that we see as a "fix me" sign. I was blown away by a guy once. I walked into a bar, he was tall, devastatingly handsome and both his arms were sleeves of tatoos. We dated, he had issues (drug, alcohol, etc) and I wanted to help him. Meanwhile there was a really "nice guy" in love with me who i only considered as a 'friend' who had to sit and watch while the bad boy crapped all over me. In the end bad boy had to move, he had a fiance i didnt know about living across the country and 5 months later I started dating the nice guy. We have been together 2 years, living together for 1 and i love him more than anyone i have ever been with.
ash519 Posted April 6, 2007 Posted April 6, 2007 In a word, Excitment( makes their panties wet ). And yes, it does
Author loveinlife Posted April 6, 2007 Author Posted April 6, 2007 I see your point ash519, it makes perfect sense to me now. The whole nurturing part and the sexual fantasy that yamaha mentioned. Thanks for your response.
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