RichC Posted April 5, 2007 Posted April 5, 2007 I know I am being too logical about this but I can't figure it out. Evidently I have charisma. After 15 years of marriage and going through divorce I have been attracting women at an embarrasing rate. In the last month four women I have met at work or on the train, ranging in age from 30 to 50 are really overt in their interest. Two were married women and I quashed those immediately. It's just interesting to see what a certain look or a polite "how are you" or just making conversation does. At least its gettingme back in the swing of interacting with the opposite sex. Maybe just repressed feelings of "I don't have a girlfriend or SO" and I have been married for 15 years. After six years of no communications, fighting all the time and no nookie maybe my feeling is apparent.
Starry-eyed Posted April 5, 2007 Posted April 5, 2007 Well good for you! Sounds like it's about time. What changed recently with the sudden charisma? Did ya get a haircut or new pair of pants? Just an attitude? Sometimes, when you don't seem to care or be trying anymore, things happen. Cliches can be true, you know. Just be kind in your quashing!
Storyrider Posted April 5, 2007 Posted April 5, 2007 Maybe you should post on Deaconblue's thread. He is having the opposite experience.
Author RichC Posted April 5, 2007 Author Posted April 5, 2007 Starry eyed: The two married women I was very gentle with. I do not like to have my feelings hurt either when my heart is exposed. I really was not looking for anything, and in fact, don't want anything at this time. Have turned my mind to making my own plans and planning my own future. I have not done anything really different but I am planning to upgrade my wardrobe when the money situation improves after the divorce. After 15 years of marriage I lost a little of my identity and need to get it back. It was just odd (and a little scary) that an attractive woman happens to sit on the train next to you or is in the elevator at work and they start looking at you with "those eyes" if you know what I mean. Thanks for the replies. I will probably take up posting on the other thread.
Starry-eyed Posted April 6, 2007 Posted April 6, 2007 Rich, I can relate to the identity thing. I've been married for the last 12 years and only recently realized that I was only living a small part of myself, and I wanted to find myself or be my old self again (I know that sounds cliched). So getting your identity back is cool. I'm trying to update my wardrobe, too! I recently got some cute, skimpier under wear. And a pair of low-rise pants, which I have fervently resisted ever since they came on the fashion scene many years ago. You're going to knock those women out, Rich!
Author RichC Posted April 6, 2007 Author Posted April 6, 2007 i am going to get some clothes that do a better job of accetuating my body. After 27 years of bodybuilding I think its time to show it off!!
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