Guest Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 I met a sweet and sincere guy(Tim) on the internet during the breakup up my 16 yr marriage....Now, I have a dilemma that i am dealing with and would like some help...I asked my BF of over 6 yrs(Tim) to leave about 2 wks ago, so he left very angrily, he is now renting a room somewhere......we have had many blowouts with each other over stupid things, but most of them were while he was drinking...he is an alcoholic, only gets drunk at home....sometimes drinking as much as a case in one night...he is very cocky when he drinks, he wastes money on porn, bounces checks and then asks me for money so his account wont be overdrawn...He yells in my face when he gets angry, says bad things about my family, breaks my stuff, calls me names..etc, etc...So, I am very happy at home with him gone...I miss the good times we shared, but I really dont think that we will ever get back together as a couple...i feel very guilty about that, because he is trying to improve himself, going to church, getting into counseling, etc...i am fine until i hear his voice, then i am torn...I am not sure if I really love him or if i loved the way he used to make me feel when he was a nicer person...I am so overwhelmed with guilt...i feel sorry for him and i want to be his friend, but i dont know if that is possible...Please help
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