Guest Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Ok so in feb of last year my dh told me when he was out with his friends gettin drunk he slept with some ho, he wasn't going to tell me and hurt me but low and behold she got pregnant and she says its his. We went to marriage counceling and he has wanted nothing to do with the woman or baby. Last week he came to me and told me he was wondering about the baby, if he wanted to be involved with her or not. I told him I had no support for that at all, I couldn't put myself or our children through that. I guess I should also mention that i'm 4 months pregnant myself. Yeah big time mess. He is on an anti-depressant, it seems to be helping but I know its just eating him up. I basically told him if he wanted anything to do with this child I was gone, he'd be giving up our family for her. I feel guilty, no one knows of this at all, we've kept it secret. the other woman has had no contact with him or myself, we had no idea when she gave birth or anything until he asked a mutual friend 2 weeks ago, that blew me away. I now have a name to the child that I never want to know nor do I want my children to know. My husband and I have been together for 13 years, he had never done anything like this before, he said he wasn't unhappy he was drunk and she came on to him and the rest is written in stone. What do I do? I cannot be part of this kids life, I don't think it would be healthy for anyone at all, he doesn't want to do a dna test because he doesn't want to know if its his for sure. I know it's eating him up inside, he is a great father ot our children. Any advice would be great.
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