jayteresa Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Hello lovely Love Shacketiers! Basically I found out a few weeks ago that back in Jan my boyfriend-who runs a bar- ended up in a bit of a pasionate kiss with one of his staff. Since then I found a phone bill and saw he had been on the phone to her at all hours. I caught him out and he had a freak out. He has promised it never went further than the kiss and calls-which is still bad enough! He has been a bit better with telling me he loves me recently, though I dont doubt he has still has contact with her- she still works there- but I want to trust him, but should I, he denied it all so much until I found out enough info to prove otherwise. Basically I am asking is once a cheat always a cheat?
Trialbyfire Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Whether they will cheat again or not in some ways, doesn't matter. The question is, can you learn to trust them again? In my situation, no, I felt I couldn't learn to trust him because it was an addiction, not something I wanted to invest in for the future. In yours, if it has only gone as far as a few calls and some kissing, how do you feel?
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