PDPullmn612 Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 hey guys, wow its been a while since i've had to come here for some advice, but i guess i could consider that a good thing:laugh: ok anyways here is the deal... i am a freshman in college. about 10 days ago i hung out with this girl that i had maybe talked to a few times last semster (in the fall). after we hung out that one time, we've hung out at lacrosse games and eaten dinner together with our friends and what not. about the middle of last week i started to become a little attracted towards her. this past saturday night me and her hung out alone. some stuff happened, nothing big, we just kissed and cuddled and what not. she ended up sleeping over that night in my bed with me, after we had layed there and talked for im gonna say like 5 hours straight. after what happened satruday night, im starting to really like her. now i have 2 questions... 1) If you are a girl...would you say that she has something for me in return or was she just messing around with me? keep in mind it went no farther than cuddling and kissing. 2) I'm really confused. A lot of me wants to tell her how I feel, but a part of me just wants to keep it and see what happens. What do you think would be best? Thanks in advance guys. and sorry for the long post:)
luvtoto Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Well, duh! Uh, she stayed over and talked with you for five hours in your bed. Yea, I would say she likes you. Ok, now for the juicy details. What did you two talk about? Oh, also...let your feelings out gradually with her.
polywog Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 I'm with luvtoto. Just let it blossom for awhile before saying anything. She's probably having the same thoughts that you are. Don't rush it, let it take its course for a bit. Sounds promising, so far.
Author PDPullmn612 Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 as far as what we talked about, we talked about a whole lot of stuff. as far is it goes, we talked about a lot of personal stuff. she told me all about her parents and how they got divorced, about her likes, dislikes, what she likes to do, etc. i told her a lot os serious stories about when i was younger and all that stuff. when she was telling me about what she likes and what not, i honestly couldnt find one thing that she likes that i didnt. we also talked about a lot of fun stuff as well. but we had some pretty deep conversations. also i noticed that when we were cuddling, everytime i looked over she just had this little smile on her face. im assuming thats a good thing:) any other input?
polywog Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 as far as what we talked about, we talked about a whole lot of stuff. as far is it goes, we talked about a lot of personal stuff. she told me all about her parents and how they got divorced, about her likes, dislikes, what she likes to do, etc. i told her a lot os serious stories about when i was younger and all that stuff. when she was telling me about what she likes and what not, i honestly couldnt find one thing that she likes that i didnt. we also talked about a lot of fun stuff as well. but we had some pretty deep conversations. also i noticed that when we were cuddling, everytime i looked over she just had this little smile on her face. im assuming thats a good thing:) any other input? sounds very good!!
Author PDPullmn612 Posted April 4, 2007 Author Posted April 4, 2007 well things just seem to be getting better...i hung out with her and her friend tonight, nothing big happened, just flirted a little. however, after we stopped hanging out me and her start chatting online and had some pretty good convo. we talked about the night we spent together on saturday night. she was also telling me certain places that she loves to be kissed and all of that good stuff. also told me that she really enjoyed spending the night with me, and was pleased that i had been so open with her. i'm just gonna keep hoping it gets better and better
Author PDPullmn612 Posted April 9, 2007 Author Posted April 9, 2007 well i'm glad to say that i didnt have to say a thing...she beat me to it:) we were just hanigng out cuddling last night and she came out with it. she likes me! whats really funny about that is that i wanted so badly to just tell her but she told me first. we both dont exactly know whats is going to happen, but we both decided to give it time and maybe eventually have a relationship. i must say, i'm quite happy!
stace79 Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Well finally....a good story on here. =) I'm really happy to read this, even though it makes me tear up a little. Just take care of what you have and treat it well. That'd be my best advice. Good luck with this girl. well i'm glad to say that i didnt have to say a thing...she beat me to it:) we were just hanigng out cuddling last night and she came out with it. she likes me! whats really funny about that is that i wanted so badly to just tell her but she told me first. we both dont exactly know whats is going to happen, but we both decided to give it time and maybe eventually have a relationship. i must say, i'm quite happy!
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