ash519 Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Or should i say boys. Whatever. So I tend to do most the cleaning where my bf and I live. I pick up after myself (OBVIOUSLY) and I tend to pick up after him too. So today my bf calls and I asked if he had any of the brownies I made. He said No because he was way to full after the dinner he made. (by the way, he got home at 10 when I was already in bed). Anyways, so he says he made wings etc and then goes "did you notice I even picked up after myself?" What, should i be proud!!!!! Ive never had to be like " I made a snack and look, i cleaned up after myself " Do other women go through this? It's not a huge problem or anything, but c'mon, as adults, shouldnt we be responsible for our own messes, for the most part?
a4a Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Or should i say boys. Whatever. So I tend to do most the cleaning where my bf and I live. I pick up after myself (OBVIOUSLY) and I tend to pick up after him too. So today my bf calls and I asked if he had any of the brownies I made. He said No because he was way to full after the dinner he made. (by the way, he got home at 10 when I was already in bed). Anyways, so he says he made wings etc and then goes "did you notice I even picked up after myself?" What, should i be proud!!!!! Ive never had to be like " I made a snack and look, i cleaned up after myself " Do other women go through this? It's not a huge problem or anything, but c'mon, as adults, shouldnt we be responsible for our own messes, for the most part? It was once written here (by who I forget) that if a man pisses and actually hits the water and not the floor and seat. He expects a cold six pack of beer, chicken wings, and a parade of hookers in response to his great accomplishment of actually hitting the target. :lmao: :lmao:
Author ash519 Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 It was once written here (by who I forget) that if a man pisses and actually hits the water and not the floor and seat. He expects a cold six pack of beer, chicken wings, and a parade of hookers in response to his great accomplishment of actually hitting the target. :lmao: :lmao: Well, If the sexes are equal i guess I am owed a few million dollars in diamonds! They are so f'n helpless sometimes!!!
DanielMadr Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Thats the curse of boys who never lived alone. They need mummy not a wife. Army is good for this. On the other hand. Ive been to flats of some single women who were tip top going out but their place was a mess. They were taking their laundry to their mothers on weekends w.a.f. Tell him to piss into the basin or install bowl urinal if he cant wipe the porcelain clean afterwards and he doesnt b/c he doesnt have to clean it right?
Author ash519 Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 Thats the curse of boys who never lived alone. They need mummy not a wife. Army is good for this. Well, I guess I need to go get him some enrollment forms. No, I can handle it, it was just after we got off the phone "I even cleaned up after myself" kept ringing in my head! Dumb!!!
a4a Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Thats the curse of boys who never lived alone. They need mummy not a wife. Army is good for this. Well, I guess I need to go get him some enrollment forms. No, I can handle it, it was just after we got off the phone "I even cleaned up after myself" kept ringing in my head! Dumb!!! Did he make a poopy in the big people potty too? :lmao: sorry.... but this cracks me up..... my H still does this to me from time to time......... "I cleaned up the kitchen"........ oh my what a good boy you are, now you can go get that special toy you wanted, good boys get toys! :lmao: I did threaten him with a big chart for gold stars to go on the frig....... :lmao:
bridget_jones Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Nothing to add except your post made me laugh. :)
Author ash519 Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 Nothing to add except your post made me laugh. :) HAHA thanks...by the way, i love Bridget Jones, and love Colin Firth even more. A4A- Maybe I should make him a gold star chart, and maybe even give myself some stars. We had a "doing the dishes chart" and i beat him like 23 to 5. The only reason he had those 5 was because I had a heart procedure done and was down for a weekend.
DanielMadr Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 one more thing....when you start to rant about your H....its time to find a pencil and divorce forms:p
VinaAmez Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Do other women go through this? It's not a huge problem or anything, but c'mon, as adults, shouldnt we be responsible for our own messes, for the most part? Yes we do. I for one live with someone who will actually bring stuff home, throw it on the counter and leave it for someone else to put away. Do I do it? No. Sometimes it stays there until late at night or whenever he FEELS like doing it. This is something new because he's never done this until lately. So I'm ignoring it in hopes it goes away.
Leoni Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 I like the gold star chart. Do they win something for it, like an eraser that smells like bubblegum?
Author ash519 Posted April 4, 2007 Author Posted April 4, 2007 one more thing....when you start to rant about your H....its time to find a pencil and divorce forms:p I'm not married, and regardless, I dont agree with this at all. People who date sometimes clash or find annoyances and you work to get past them. Bitching about it doesnt mean it should be over, just releasing an annoyance. I am pretty sure no relationships would last if people divorced or thought of breaking up the second they disagreed or got aggitated that the man didnt pick up his socks!
Author ash519 Posted April 4, 2007 Author Posted April 4, 2007 I like the gold star chart. Do they win something for it, like an eraser that smells like bubblegum? HAHA!!! They get to get something from the secret bag...things like stickers and stamps!
bridget_jones Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 I think Daniel was joking but it's really not that funny.
Author ash519 Posted April 4, 2007 Author Posted April 4, 2007 I think Daniel was joking but it's really not that funny. Oh! I didnt read the sarcasm...my bad!
a4a Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 HAHA!!! They get to get something from the secret bag...things like stickers and stamps! No a beer, slice of pizza, gift cert. to Hooters, or a blow job....... Blow Job points seem to work the best..... also helps if you have a naughty chair to put them in.......so they can think about what they did that hurt you. :lmao:
Author ash519 Posted April 4, 2007 Author Posted April 4, 2007 haha. I was thinking things like bj's and beer and then i realized they really shouldnt be getting rewarded for cleaning up after themselves...what do i get? So that is why i went with stickers and stamps.
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