WhiteKnight Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Hey Lamby. Yea, what you have read from my posts and many others here. That is what we are thinking, that your ex has issues with you... trouble of letting go and having mind games with you. Its best that if you want a friendship to survive and your relationship with your current partner to work out, just staying away from your ex is the best way to go until things are better between you two. Try to do your best to keep things with your ex in a very neutral way. Don't pick sides and leave yourself away from the equation of it all, you are her casual friend now. You like to keep your distance and both of you have moved on. Both of you might want to become good friends again in the near future, but there will always will be having more conflicts. I have to say that, it may sound harsh and all, but everyone has to move on and live on acceptance that either their friendship could have worked out a lot better than before since after breaking up the relationship. In my opinion, to be honest... Whoever made the breakup first, should try their best to make a second friendship with their EX work out. The EX usually has the responsibility, if they really did love and care about you, feeling the guilt on their mind of using you or whatever the reason. Usually the EX who broke up with you first should make the move to reheal the friendship but arguably, if your ex wants a friendship to work... the other EX would have to agree with it and make things a lot better. If both or one of the EX's had changed their contact details and never gave it out to their EX (i.e. ignoring their request if they asked you for it, etc.) Well it could mean many things, like rejection, denial, guilt, doubt of trusting her/him, sorrow, reluctance or 'forget about me...' etc. And even if one of the EX's that said 'Online Friendship is fine...' be content with it and accept that most likely your EX doesn't want to see you again. Sometimes it could be the case, and then again it may not. However if a friendship was to be healed and resorted where both sides are very happy about it. Only through time of healing, things can truly work out between each other...
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