dj09 Posted December 17, 2002 Posted December 17, 2002 I tend to think a lot about imaginary situations that only just exist in me head that could happen but i seem to never do anything about it. Then i stop daydreaming and because of this i have tendenecy to get very depressed about a lot of things in general. Mainly this girl. She first caught my eyes about 2 or 3 years ago but have never had the courage to do anything about it. Initially she showed an interest in me. I was stupid and unable to do anything. I just sat back and watched never did anything about it. This year she seemed to shown an interest in me. I'm not really sure about this and then i tend to think about every situation or little thing that could mean anything in me head. But sereoiusly i don't have a clue. I think i was imagining half the things but then i don't know. I mean she seemed to smile at me. I felt a bit uncoformatable with the way she seemd to look at me. It was intense eye contact. But then again i was probably imagining these things. I think she's moved on most likely found someone else to be with which is quite depressing. Then i feel like i am finally getting over her. Then it strikes again i seem to get even more depressed. i mean i think she could be the one but then i think as if and snap back to reality.
Tony T Posted December 17, 2002 Posted December 17, 2002 You've had all these chances to talk to her and get something going and you've done nothing about it. You actually came here for advice??? How can we possibly give you any advice when your post clearly indicates you are not willing to take action on your desires??? I can't feel one bit sorry for you. Take some vitamins, get some exercise, take a cold shower, eat right, etc. and learn to stop procrastinating. When a woman you desire shows an interest, show an interest back...talk to her...and get things going. Short of that, there's nothing I can do for you on a computer screen...but if I saw you in person I'd try to slap some sense and motivation into you. You ought to be depressed. You've passed up not one but several windows of opportunity with this lady. She probably thinks you're not interested! GGGGEEEEZZZZEEEEEEE!!!
Debster Posted December 18, 2002 Posted December 18, 2002 This woman is probably very frustrated with you and has no idea where she stands. Be a man and tell her how you feel.
Author dj09 Posted December 19, 2002 Author Posted December 19, 2002 Shoud i try saying hello to her and if all goes well build my way from there. I mean small talk I'll give it a shot.
Tony T Posted December 19, 2002 Posted December 19, 2002 I think saying hello to somebody you'd like to know better is a very excellent start. Doing almost anything is better than doing nothing at all.
katy_katt Posted December 20, 2002 Posted December 20, 2002 I'm confused...is this girl a friend of a friend? Somebody you're taking a class with, or somebody in your school? Do yu work with her? How can you know and be aware of somebody for 2 or 3 years and not have talked to them? Don't just daydream about it; go up to her, introduce yourself, say hello! At least that way you'll know she's aware of you.
Author dj09 Posted December 23, 2002 Author Posted December 23, 2002 I mean she's very pretty and i'm not really good at introducing myself. I mean what would i say am i even correct when i say she was interested in me. Her i don't even stand a chance i suppose it's a fear. What i mean is that she smiled at me and i just froze nothing came out of my mouth.
Ally Boo Posted December 23, 2002 Posted December 23, 2002 Girls really find insecurity in males to be repulsive. Why dont you just get some confidence and then talk to her. Your chances are better that way.
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