Guest Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 It started when i was 19 and a girl i was in a relationship with got pregnant.Our child was born 2 days before my 20th birthday and everything was great until her mum moved in and took complete control of our lives.This lasted for 2 years and it came to a point where I had enough. My girlfriend knew how I felt but did'nt want to let her mum down so I felt my feelings ment nothing. I was working for a company and got on well with everyone especially this girl who worked for me so we saw alot of each other.One night we all decided to go for a drink and I ended up going back to a friends house with her.I know it was wrong but she understud me and helped me through my problems. This kept going on for a month until my girlfriend found out.I did'nt deny it when she confronted me and we broke up. Both the girl from work and myself decided to give ourselves a go and everything was great for a while until I noticed her changing.She would not let me go on night outs with friends,if I did she would have to be with me.If I talked to a girl I would be accused of being with her which was not true. Before I got the chance to finish it she told me she was pregnant.So for the childs sake I decided to stay and hopefully things would change. The child is now 4 yrs old and nothing has changed.I know it was my own fault from the start but I dont want to become a failure.2 relationships and 2 kids but I cant stay this way anylonger and I dont know what to do.We are constantly fighting and to be honest I have not loved her for a long time,but I love my little girl very much and this will hurt her too.Please can anyone give some advice.
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