Motor35 Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 I heard a rumor and have to ask you about it. And I know I shouldn't care, but I need your opinion. The man I am getting over works with a girl he used to date. I heard he told her he wanted her to quit because they don't get along at work. Why would he ask her to do that? (BTW-I was also told she did quit). Does this mean he wants to get back with her? I am such a spaz for asking, but what do you think? HELP!
vivrantflo Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 How are you? Well in my opinion, if this guy doesn't want to see this woman at work because they don't get along, it's probably because they didn't have the greatest breakup, and seeing each other every day may have been adding to the resentment/hurt/bad memories etc...And since she did quit, the feelings must have been mutual. You say you're trying to get over this guy... perhaps you shouldnt worry about whom he's fighting with, or trying to get back. You don't want a guy that you want to get over consuming your mind. Tell your friends, or aquaintances that you don't want to hear about him, or what he's doing, or whom he's talking to. Your healing process will be quicker and more sucessful if you're not hearing about him at all! Good luck!
Trialbyfire Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Some people have difficulty facing their past mistakes. It's like a reflection of their own failures. I think it's selfish to ask someone to quit their job because of a previous relationship. If anything, it's his issue. Please move on M35, for your own peace of mind. If I recall your past posts, this guy is bad news.
Author Motor35 Posted April 2, 2007 Author Posted April 2, 2007 Thank you for your comments. Sometimes I feel like this is the only place where people will give honest advice without judging. I know I shouldn't be worrying about what he is doing, but I can't stop. It feels like a terrible addiction and I am in tears and trembling as I type this. I love him and miss him so much, but I cycle everyday. Somedays I KNOW I am better off without him, other days, I miss him to no end. You are right, I need to heal and be good to myself, but today has been a hard one. Thank you for listening.
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