Citizen Erased Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Okay I have noticed that of course quite alot of the threads on here are repeated, we all end up giving the same advice, that advice is then either ignored by the OP or argued with and then the thread disappears after a couple of days, with yet another to take its place. So I thought I would help with a bit of cleaning of LS. Below is a summary of the most repeated situations and responses, just to save everyone the time. My boyfriend looks at porn. Help! Your boyfriend looking at porn is not about you. It is not about your relationship, his feelings for you, it is not an idication he will cheat on you. It is pure fantasy and that is where it stays. The fact is that a man who doesn't look at porn is pretty much non-existent. Sex is not based purely on emotions for a man. This does not show he doesn't love you, that he thinks any less of you or compares you to these women. However, if it is truly something which you feel you cannot tolerate in a relationship then you need to sit him down, and explain this. He is not a mind reader. Explain that it is a deal breaker for you and he needs to respect you enough to be truthful as to whether or not he will be able to give this up. I slept with him a week ago and he hasn't called. I have seen him a few times since and he has been distant. He used you. He is a player and a jerk, forget about him. The sooner you realise this the better. I am in love with my friend/sisters boyfriend THIS CAN GO NOWHERE!!! You cannot cross this line. Stop being selfish and think about the betrayal of someone you should love more then yourself. I think my boss is hot. Should I try something with them? Um how about HELL NO! I think my SO is cheating. Should I snoop? The fact that you automatically assume that your SO is being unfaithful says alot about your trust, your relationship and your insecurities. If you have better proof then "he has a mark on his pants that is the same colour as concealer" perhaps you have enough reason to be suspicious. However nothing will ever make snooping right. Every person has a right to their privacy, you would in fact be breaking the law and they can press charges. Alright well thats all I can think of at the moment, anyone who wants to add anything always welcome.
Enema Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Your ideas intrigue me and I would like to subscribe to your newsletter. All kidding aside, it's refreshing to see a woman with the "right" perspective on things, including men & porn! Do you wanna get married?
Author Citizen Erased Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 Your ideas intrigue me and I would like to subscribe to your newsletter. All kidding aside, it's refreshing to see a woman with the "right" perspective on things, including men & porn! Newsletter hey... Do you wanna get married? Only if you are asking
Porn_Guy Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 you can't do anything about this issue DARLIN COCO
pelagicsands Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 I slept with him a week ago and he hasn't called. I have seen him a few times since and he has been distant. You could just get a pair of binoculars, but it's really a case of "out of sight, out of mind." You should make your approach, and ask if it was good for him, too.
Author Citizen Erased Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 You could just get a pair of binoculars, but it's really a case of "out of sight, out of mind." :lmao: To stalk or not to stalk, that is the question...
Author Citizen Erased Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 you can't do anything about this issue DARLIN COCO Yes I know, but I was bored last night No harm in trying
pelagicsands Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Yes I know, but I was bored last night In which orifice?
Author Citizen Erased Posted April 4, 2007 Author Posted April 4, 2007 In which orifice? I don't quite know what to say to that
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