robyn Posted December 1, 1999 Posted December 1, 1999 hello out there i hope someone can relate to me. I am a single mom with three children and about three months ago i started to date a single dad with three kids (they live with their mom). the problem is he pretty much moved in from the beginning, he pays none of the bills and every time i ask him about it he will go back to his mom's for a couple o days and he never pays a dime. he also goes to the bar two to three times a week with his friends, and he says he won't be gone long and comes home four or five hours later. and i am really sick and tired of it. he treats me good and i do love him,but is it worth it in the end? Is this guy using me or does he love me in some strange way that I do not know about? I have talked to him several times about his drinking and he says that is his way of relaxing. Well where is my ime to relax? I work 10-12 hours a day to pay the bills and keep my children fed with no help from anyone.and let me tell you i am no ugly duckling. I am 31 blonde hair brown eyes and 110 pounds. WHAT DO I DO? do i put up with this or do i let go and walk away.
Billie Posted December 1, 1999 Posted December 1, 1999 Let him go! He is using you for sex pure and simple! If your raising three kids without his help you don't need him and there are better guys out there who will help you out.
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