Stacy69 Posted December 17, 2002 Posted December 17, 2002 Me and my boyfriend have been togather for about a year in a half and all we do is agrue anymore and it is all about him he doesnt care what i think or take my opions seriously and i dont know what to do i tried to confront him and he just said he doesnt do that and he considers all my opions what should i do??
Tony T Posted December 17, 2002 Posted December 17, 2002 The purpose of dating is to find someone with whom you are compatible with in order to share the joys of life on this planet. It doesn't sound like that's happening in your case. It's likely that your guy comes from a screwed up family where there was a strong parent and a weak one...or where there was a lot of confrontation and drama. This isn't something you need to put up with. It's too bad you didn't see this coming sooner because you have a lot invested in this relationship. However, if you can't have a heart to heart talk with him and let him know very clearlyt hat this is NOT the way you want to live your life, then you need to let him go....move on. Life is way too short, take my word for it. I read the obituaries every day in the newspaper and lots of people are dying young. Let every minute you spend on this planet be a happy one and get away from the people who cause you heartache. I hope you can get your guy going in a different direction but my bet is that if he doesn't want to and if he doesn't seek the help of a competent counsellor, he won't be able to do it. Good luck!
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