Pyro Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 guy friends to chill with, because I do tend to be more of myself when I'm around them. some of my girl friends, well 2 in particular stopped hanging out with me because they got mad that I'd get more attention than them while we were out. they were single, so am I, but I guess they were feeling insecure so they don't want to hang out around me. it's happened before, and I don't know why it's such a big deal, and I don't provoke it either it just happens, so that's what I mean by drama, because sometimes I can't trust them. Finding guys like that is pretty the much as difficult as finding a needle in a haystack......
VinaAmez Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Finding guys like that is pretty the much as difficult as finding a needle in a haystack...... Yep Probably about 70% of my guy friends are ones I grew up with.
Author chill chic Posted April 4, 2007 Author Posted April 4, 2007 very true guys. and like I said, most of the time if I feel that they are friends at first, they almost always tend to want to take things further, so then I have all these potential dates that are hard to juggle lol. so that's when it gets foggy and confusing on how to just keep it as just friends.
DanielMadr Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 guy friends to chill with, because I do tend to be more of myself when I'm around them. some of my girl friends, well 2 in particular stopped hanging out with me because they got mad that I'd get more attention than them while we were out. they were single, so am I, but I guess they were feeling insecure so they don't want to hang out around me. it's happened before, and I don't know why it's such a big deal, and I don't provoke it either it just happens, so that's what I mean by drama, because sometimes I can't trust them. Why are you complaining then? You love attention from male fans and nothing more. You are the fling. You only flirt to keep them close but back off when they get too close - try to hit on you. Its the worse case of fling btw. Flirting, stringing along with no serious intention of closing the deal. Im sure if the guys know that they cant get any better than 'FRIEND' category, the would eject pretty soon. Having a real friend and only friend of opposite sex is very rare. You cant seriously believe that those guys want to be friends only. Nobodys that dumb. You love their attention and you are confusing them. Id say you are player. Drop your ego boosting scheme and Im sure you meet someone who will be appealing to you more than a friend.
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