a4a Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 I don't think there is anything wrong with that, but I agree with the poster who said the vast majority of people believe they are above average. That is so true. Well that is true if lets say they are thinking Rosie O'Donnell is "average" :lmao: eh I posted my pic here before I got the confirmed "hot" vote so MH is off on his call with me.
the_analist Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Guys who are simply looking to get laid will go for the hotties for a fling...and most hot chicks know how to handle this. Absolutely. If you want to see if he is being genuine, then hold off on the sex. Let it wait. If he sticks around and shows interest in you and your life, then he is genuine. The guys who only want a fling will get frustrated if you hold off on the sex and he will not stick around. I think this is good advice.
pelagicsands Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 If you want to see if he is being genuine, then hold off on the sex. Let it wait. If he sticks around and shows interest in you and your life, then he is genuine. The guys who only want a fling will get frustrated if you hold off on the sex and he will not stick around. I must have missed this. Good post - this is the litmus test.
DanielMadr Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Well that is true if lets say they are thinking Rosie O'Donnell is "average" :lmao: eh I posted my pic here before I got the confirmed "hot" vote so MH is off on his call with me. Can we see your pretty face again? pls:confused:
bridget_jones Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 I don't think there is anything wrong with that, but I agree with the poster who said the vast majority of people believe they are above average. That is so true. I think when people take a look at themselves in the mirror, they know if they are above average or not lookswise. It's not hard to figure out when people tell you you are pretty, etc. and you look in magazines, the media, celebs. etc. to know what above average attractiveness is. It's not rocket science.
a4a Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Can we see your pretty face again? pls:confused: You're looking at it <-------- No at this point in my life it would not be good to splatter my face with my jibberish that I post here. Besides someone may want to save the pic and masturbate to it, I cannot have that. If you would like to pay for my image then we can chat about it. NO FREEBIES! Your just going to have to trust the judgement of those that have seen me. I think Art said I was "smokin'" ..... but I am smokin' for real in this avatar so not sure what he meant. :lmao:
DanielMadr Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Some guys do think that way. If you want to see if he is being genuine, then hold off on the sex. Let it wait. If he sticks around and shows interest in you and your life, then he is genuine. The guys who only want a fling will get frustrated if you hold off on the sex and he will not stick around. It works when the hot chick is also interesting person. Hot chick or not, when they meet Mr. Right, tests are the last thing they think of. This 'He only wanted me for sex' is supposed to mean 'Im so hot he wanted to bed me right away but Im not like that' but it really means 'He didnt think I would be much fun beside sex'
bridget_jones Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 "Hot" or not, when a woman jumps into bed right away with a guy, he isn't taking her as dating material, he's taking her as fling material. It's not about a "test." A lot of women ruin the chance of a guy ever becoming "Mr. Right" because they go to bed with him too soon.
a4a Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 "Hot" or not, when a woman jumps into bed right away with a guy, he isn't taking her as dating material, he's taking her as fling material. It's not about a "test." A lot of women ruin the chance of a guy ever becoming "Mr. Right" because they go to bed with him too soon. ehhhh....... I bluntly approached my H for a FWB relationship. Look what happened. He was supposed to be a fling. I fell for his trickery and ended up married to him. Damn him...... damn him all to hell! :lmao:
DanielMadr Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 You're looking at it <-------- No at this point in my life it would not be good to splatter my face with my jibberish that I post here. Besides someone may want to save the pic and masturbate to it, I cannot have that. If you would like to pay for my image then we can chat about it. NO FREEBIES! Your just going to have to trust the judgement of those that have seen me. I think Art said I was "smokin'" ..... but I am smokin' for real in this avatar so not sure what he meant. :lmao: Cool. But its not you in your avatar. Its my boss' wife. Someone may want to but someone is certainly not choking his cobra to mug shots. So I dont think you can spoil someone much. I thought you should pay. Im quite a picky and detached judge. My honest opinion is worth 100 of others. Your sense of humor is really appealing....you are man or I want to marry you:love:
DanielMadr Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 "Hot" or not, when a woman jumps into bed right away with a guy, he isn't taking her as dating material, he's taking her as fling material. It's not about a "test." A lot of women ruin the chance of a guy ever becoming "Mr. Right" because they go to bed with him too soon. I think it depends on both of them, on their attitudes. There is no law of nature to this.
a4a Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Cool. But its not you in your avatar. Its my boss' wife. Someone may want to but someone is certainly not choking his cobra to mug shots. So I dont think you can spoil someone much. I thought you should pay. Im quite a picky and detached judge. My honest opinion is worth 100 of others. Your sense of humor is really appealing....you are man or I want to marry you:love: see I get that all the time...... guys love me because of my humor... same crap happens when I go out with friends though. They always want you "on".... I got people pressuring me to go on vacations with them to make them laugh..... why can't they just stare at my boobs instead? For you I may give in and post a "not so close up" pic to my profile...... I cannot reveal who I am exactly - as those in power at work would declare me a lunatic and I probably would lose my job with the language I use here. ..............and my secret identity would be revealed and could also compromise my super hero mission to save the world from aliens from the planet Paxil. You will have to work quick to see the pic..... but wait a minute as I choke down this frozen burrito I made for lunch...
a4a Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 hey wait a minute....... you show me yours and then I will show you mine.
DanielMadr Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 why can't they just stare at my boobs instead? Yeah some people are weird:rolleyes: I wonder, does it happen to you often when you joke around too much, someone from the group of people cant take it any more and starts to choke you?
a4a Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 Yeah some people are weird:rolleyes: I wonder, does it happen to you often when you joke around too much, someone from the group of people cant take it any more and starts to choke you? No most of the time they piss themselves or beer comes out their nose... none have tried to choke me..... well except the H, but he is hung like a horse so it is bound to happen from time to time.
DanielMadr Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 No most of the time they piss themselves or beer comes out their nose... none have tried to choke me..... well except the H, but he is hung like a horse so it is bound to happen from time to time. Hehe. It reminds me.... I had a friend and he demanded BJ from her wife like 10 times a day. He complained he cant take it any more, he is sore etc. But when we told him to have a hobby or something asexual to do, he said 'You know guys I cant do that, b/c those precious moments she is giving me a head are the only moments she is quiet.' My best regards to your H. Make sure he has enough hay;)
DanielMadr Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 I think when people take a look at themselves in the mirror, they know if they are above average or not lookswise. I dont think so. You are not detached enough and you are not of opposite sex. It's not hard to figure out when people tell you you are pretty, etc. I think someone was talking about this here. Some girls are so used to hearing it they cant be without the attention. They have to hear it often and when they dont they become insecure. Its really dangerous circle. Attention Whores are the saddest and most extreme example.
Pyro Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 It works when the hot chick is also interesting person. Hot chick or not, when they meet Mr. Right, tests are the last thing they think of. This 'He only wanted me for sex' is supposed to mean 'Im so hot he wanted to bed me right away but Im not like that' but it really means 'He didnt think I would be much fun beside sex' For the most part if a female gives up sex right away, then the guy will only think of her as a fling. I like to think that if the guy does stick around then he does find her interesting, otherwise why would he?
mental_traveller Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 "Hot" or not, when a woman jumps into bed right away with a guy, he isn't taking her as dating material, he's taking her as fling material. It's not about a "test." A lot of women ruin the chance of a guy ever becoming "Mr. Right" because they go to bed with him too soon. Wrong. One of my best friends used to be a total womanizer. He's now been 8 years with the same girl, and they f*cked on the first night.
Leoni Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 There are all kinds of guys out there. Some nice, others jerks. I don't think you can generalize and say, hot chicks are noticed as fling material only.
Author chill chic Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 Wrong. One of my best friends used to be a total womanizer. He's now been 8 years with the same girl, and they f*cked on the first night. there has been only one guy that I slept with on the first night, and it lasted over a year & a half. but...nothing really came of it, nothing serious anyway..he wasn't from my city and had planned on moving back home someday even before he met me, so it was just kinda convenient for both of us at the time.
Author chill chic Posted April 3, 2007 Author Posted April 3, 2007 For the most part if a female gives up sex right away, then the guy will only think of her as a fling. I like to think that if the guy does stick around then he does find her interesting, otherwise why would he? true. like I just posted, I've only did the one nighter thing once. all the other guys I've dated, I've waited, and they stuck around and eventually it became physical. so..it's good to hold out, and I have the power to do that, and going through that casual relationship taught me a huge lesson...not to do it again! too many of my emotions becamed involved, and now I won't sleep with a guy unless we're in a relationship. I'm getting more mature now I think..at 26 lol. well better now than never but I still get the "look" it's just hard to figure out if I should go up to him or trust him..but again..it's easy to figure out..just hold out.
Pyro Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 true. like I just posted, I've only did the one nighter thing once. all the other guys I've dated, I've waited, and they stuck around and eventually it became physical. so..it's good to hold out, and I have the power to do that, and going through that casual relationship taught me a huge lesson...not to do it again! too many of my emotions becamed involved, and now I won't sleep with a guy unless we're in a relationship. I'm getting more mature now I think..at 26 lol. well better now than never but I still get the "look" it's just hard to figure out if I should go up to him or trust him..but again..it's easy to figure out..just hold out. There you go.
pelagicsands Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 , hot chicks are noticed as fling material only. That's what I think, too.
Ripples Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 If that were the case - that 'hot chicks' are only considered fling material - then why are so many attractive women married/in long term relationships etc? You lot sound like you're pre-puberty.
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