rubix Posted April 1, 2007 Posted April 1, 2007 Hey guys, What do you make of this situation? I broke up with the guy I had been seeing. It was/is a very stressful period as we are both young (early 20's) and getting our lives together. I'm currently looking for work, and he was settling in the area where I want to live. He suggested that I move in with him to look for work, but I felt that it wouldn't help either of us, especially myself, to be in that sort of pressure cooker situation. another issue was that he didn't want to define us as a couple, but if i was going to move in with him i wanted some definition. When I told him my concerns he didn't really want to hear it/got really defensive, which lead to us splitting. It was pretty painful to do but I felt it was good to take a break from it all. Now in the two or three months we've been apart he all of sudden met someone new. Sorry if this sounds whiny, but what is his deal? He made a big deal of us being together before but I guess I feel stupid that I believed him if he's over me that quickly. I'm not even looking to date anyone myself at the moment, but I'm feeling a little sad over it all. Not to mention that I was his rebound after his former gf and him split up. I'm seeing a pattern, peeps. Thanks for reading and anyone else have this happen to them?
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