VinaAmez Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Well, I don't think my response implied anyone did. What it did imply was that I don't. Your point is? Point is...there is no point. I was merely responding to being quoted. That's all.
shellys-trying Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Yep, I quoted you as saying you thought "taken" men were hotter. I made my own comment that i don't look at "taken" men to see if they're hotter. Do you think it's respectful of you towards the SO/W of those "taken" men to think anything, whether they're hot or whatever, about their men? I mean, even if you're not meaning anything by it by just a passing, "now, he's really nice looking". Some women may consider that a compliment to their men, but others may consider that a prerequiem to being interested in their man. I'd just rather no woman think I'm interested in her man, in any way. I keep my nose out of other women's men (even just to think they're cute, etc.)because I wouldn't want another woman doing that toward my H. THAT's my point. Okey dokey!
VinaAmez Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Do you think it's respectful of you towards the SO/W of those "taken" men to think anything, whether they're hot or whatever, about their men? I mean, even if you're not meaning anything by it by just a passing, "now, he's really nice looking". Some women may consider that a compliment to their men, but others may consider that a prerequiem to being interested in their man. I'd just rather no woman think I'm interested in her man, in any way. I keep my nose out of other women's men (even just to think they're cute, etc.)because I wouldn't want another woman doing that toward my H. Even before I was in a relationship I thought some taken men were attractive. Did or do I act on it? No. That's disrespectful on my part and would never consider it a possibility. Why? Because their taken and not for sale. I have my own. Honestly I don't care if they think it's respectful or not. I wouldn't dare say it to their faces if I thought their SO was good looking or not. Do I desire these SO's or lust? No. And yes someone could turn it around and ask if I thought it was respectful for someone to do it to me. And yes I agree. I wouldn't want anyone thinking I had interest in their SO. Could cause problems which I don't want. But I do get what your saying and agree.
Topper Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 A friend of mine swears that woman can smell another's woman scent on a man and it drives them insane. We have been toying with coming out with a new men's cologne based on this phenomena of woman being attracted to married or taken men. Need a good name for the product one that doesn't sound to nasty.
AHIWON Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 "OW Seduction" Maybe taken men should roll in rotten animals like some dogs do to throw off the scent. Might not work tho, then these OW types would just seek out the rotten smelling men. Never mind.........
shellys-trying Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Even before I was in a relationship I thought some taken men were attractive. Did or do I act on it? No. That's disrespectful on my part and would never consider it a possibility. Why? Because their taken and not for sale. I have my own. Honestly I don't care if they think it's respectful or not. I wouldn't dare say it to their faces if I thought their SO was good looking or not. Do I desire these SO's or lust? No. And yes someone could turn it around and ask if I thought it was respectful for someone to do it to me. And yes I agree. I wouldn't want anyone thinking I had interest in their SO. Could cause problems which I don't want. But I do get what your saying and agree. Well, I meant no disrespect to you, in making the comments I made about myself and the whole thinking taken guys are nice looking. I was just saying I don't deal in that. Being the W of a H who cheated, I guess some people might think I should look at other men, M or in a R, but I still don't. But, then, that's a whole different topic.
shellys-trying Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 "OW Seduction" Maybe taken men should roll in rotten animals like some dogs do to throw off the scent. Might not work tho, then these OW types would just seek out the rotten smelling men. Never mind......... ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It would put a whole new spin(where OWs are concerned)to the phrase "desperate", wouldn't it?
AHIWON Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 hahaha!!!! Desperate alright. Easily identified by the clothes pin on their nose and the foul look on their faces. At least they got their man! Next thing you know the "nice guys" start using the same scent technique posing as MM/taken men and things get rapidly out of hand! Right back to square one where nobody knows WTF is going on.
VinaAmez Posted April 5, 2007 Posted April 5, 2007 Well, I meant no disrespect to you, in making the comments I made about myself and the whole thinking taken guys are nice looking. I was just saying I don't deal in that. Being the W of a H who cheated, I guess some people might think I should look at other men, M or in a R, but I still don't. But, then, that's a whole different topic. Oh no...don't worry about it. I'm not offended or anything.
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