Guest Posted March 31, 2007 Posted March 31, 2007 This past Monday my wife informed me she was moving in with another guy. She said it was over. I was devistated. I found out she has been seeing this guy since January. I can't sleep, can't eat and can't stop feeling really bad. After a couple of nights of getting drunk, screaming, crying and begging her not to do it I filed for divorce Thursday. After our converstions I felt it is really over. She read the divorce papers yesterday. She can not believe I filed this quick but I had to she has already moved (mainly clothes) to his house. This is an uncontested divorce. The only thing is I am making the payment for her truck (it is in my name). In the divorce I put in if she wanted the truck she would pay me for it and if she gets 4 weeks behind the truck would be mine. She says with her job cutting her hours she cannot afford it. I said we would work it out. She is also on my family plan cell service. I know I need to cut her off but I just can't right now. A lot of the furniture in the house is hers but the guy she has moved in with has a house and she can't move it there, and she cannot afford to put it in storage. I told just leave it until she can do something with it. It makes it where I don't need to go out and get a bunch of stuff. I know this is not good for closure but I can't hurt her that way. Maybe I am cluthing for straws I don't know. I know i am rambling and probably not making since but I need some advice or tell me I am stupid. I love her but with her living with another guy I couldn't stand for it. I just had to put this out there thanks for letting get this off my chest. jim
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